Wife kind of like the idea of...

[pathfinder]

me "choking" her during sex. We were doing it one night and I put my hands around her neck (not with the intent of choking her) and I could tell she was turned on by it.

After we were done I asked her if she ever thought about trying anything weird sex stuff and she replied "like choking?". She thought I was into it and was going to do it and she said she was kind of excited by the idea because she heard it's supposed to make an orgasm better.

Not sure if I should actually try it or not but it was interesting to know she's open to new things.

 

[sputnikgirl]

I think you should go for it. You know what they say - variety is the spice of life.

 

[pussy+dickdenice]

Do what both of you want. But be cautious, accidents do happen. And climax is called 'a moment of ecstatic death'.

 

[Jay1980]

Try throwing her in a triangle choke. She's sure to love that.

 

[Salty]

get her in a rear naked choke while your doing her doggy, my gf loves this honest.
you must not stop untill shes blue tho

 

[squallumz]

a lot of girls like that. you just obviously have to be careful. id come up with a safety word or gesture when its too much and it signals to stop. that way you can really get into it and not worry if youre hurting her.

 

[Iamforever]

dont do it drunk or high. :2 cents:

 

[member006]

I think it to be a very dangerous form of sex. While I have no way of knowing one way or the other. I certainly don't claim that its not sexually exciting or that it doesn't intensify the moment of climax. I do however feel from all I've read and from actual cases of accidental death that it is an act I wouldn't care to participate in.

In the heat of the moment of the actual climax I feel we separate body from logical mind. In that matter of a few seconds when mental control is lost, it is I think very possible to lose conscience awareness of the situation and physically get out of control and then even death can ensue.

IMHO only of course I don't find it worth the risk.

LL:angels:

 

[jdb67]

While I dont participate in ths kind of sex, I have a friend and his partner who do. They were telling me that they use a belt while doing doggie style.... Apparantly, she loves it and insists that it helps to heighten her orgasm.... my Lady is not keen to try it and neither am I.

 

[Roughneck]

Frequent indulgence in such "strangulation" leads to eventual damage and weakening of the carotids - leaving the door W-I-D-E open for thrombus and clot formation... not to mention rapid onset of atherosclerosis (and thus eventual narrowing of the artery).

Besides the eventual increase in risks for TIA - a partial stroke is very much a possibility... often one that can manifest in seconds (because one has no way of predicting if there is adequate collateral circulation).


I strongly advise avoidance - and if it is not possible, please consider the risks. They are serious and quite deadly.

solemnly,

 

[D-rock]

That wouldn't be for me, I hate having anything near my neck. I also think you would want to be EXTREMELY careful if your even thinking about doing something like that. You can cause people to black out pretty fast by chocking them, sometimes in seconds.

 

[meesterperfect]

again i agree with roughneck, clots, thrombosis, ect. its a possiblity if you aint careful.
but you know what do, just dont wind up like that preppy strangler chambers guy from the 80"s in new york.
I think its ok for my taste, as long as its not too rough, many girls like the "submissive" stuff in the throws of ecstasy.......Damn I'm gettin kinda aroused here :spump:

"So I pulled on her hair, got her legs in the air, and asked if she had any cooties in there" Zappa (Frank)

 

[Imagine]

I wouldn't recommend it. Even a few seconds of oxygen deprivation can cause irreversible brain damage or death (due to the brain not having any reserves). Some are more sensitive to oxygen deprivation than others, so it may not be safe even if you do it by the book. I imagine it's easy, especially during sex, to lose control for just a moment, but even that can be enough.

What you can try is using positions where her head is low, like hanging off the bed, or even upside down. This will produce a similar effect in that blood flow will decrease and the brain receives less oxygen. It may not be as effective as preventing breathing directly, but it's much safer (but again, I can't guarantee it's completely safe for everyone if there are medical issues). A drawback is that it'll increase blood pressure in the head and may cause headaches, in addition to the normal stuff caused by lack of oxygen (nausea, dizziness, fainting etc. Needless to say, stop if things go too far).

 

[Roughneck]

What you can try is using positions where her head is low, like hanging off the bed, or even upside down. This will produce a similar effect in that blood flow will decrease and the brain receives less oxygen.

?

Gravity causes blood to flow downwards, not upwards.

Keeping the head lower than the heart will cause an increase not a decrease of blood and oxygen to the brain.

You may feel the effects of the blood pooling (and in very rare cases a "redout") ... but no way in hell will you feel the effects of "oxygen deprivation" and hypoxia.

In fact, the first step in first aid for anyone who suffers from dizziness/LoC (syncope) is to lower the person to the ground and if possible raise their legs (direct recovery position or modified Trendlenburg position). Anyone who has ever donated blood knows what I'm talking about...

You've got your physics and physiology mixed up my friend.


cheers,

 

[pathfinder]

Well, we tried it last night and I accidentally broke her head off.
Just kidding
I didn't realize there were so many health risks aside from the obvious. Thanks Roughneck for that info. I'll certainly think twice about it now and at least let her know what the deal is. Maybe I'll just punch her in the kidneys instead.

 

[Roughneck]

Maybe I'll just punch her in the kidneys instead.

:1orglaugh

My wife doesn't like it when I smack her ass - she says my open palm stings and really hurts. She really let fly once with a ******* of abuse that incidentally turned me on (which of course, pissed her off even more).

So there she was cussing me out and me grinning like a drunk monkey and we're trying to make love...

Boy! That was one weird night! :rofl:

cheers,

 

[Imagine]

Gravity causes blood to flow downwards, not upwards.

Keeping the head lower than the heart will cause an increase not a decrease of blood and oxygen to the brain.

You may feel the effects of the blood pooling (and in very rare cases a "redout") ... but no way in hell will you feel the effects of "oxygen deprivation" and hypoxia.

In fact, the first step in first aid for anyone who suffers from dizziness/LoC (syncope) is to lower the person to the ground and if possible raise their legs (direct recovery position or modified Trendlenburg position). Anyone who has ever donated blood knows what I'm talking about...

You've got your physics and physiology mixed up my friend.

The valves in the vascular system are designed to work against gravity, i.e. when you stand upright. Yes, blood will pool in your upper body when upside down, but it also means that overall circulation, and therefore oxygen distribution, will decrease. Being horizontal is another matter entierly, and I can almost guarantee you that no one is going to tell you to hold someone who just fainted upside down.

 

[Roughneck]

The valves in the vascular system are designed to work against gravity, i.e. when you stand upright.

I'm aware of that. Systemic venous return in general depends on accessory muscle use and presence of valves, a fact that arteries generally lack. That is why most of the veins on your trunk and extremities have valves and the major veins pass through skeletal muscle... whose contractile action helps pump blood through the veins.

However, circulation to the brain is a whole different ball of wax. Venous blood doesn't have to fight against gravity and falling pressure to reach the heart - the arterial supply does.

How do you explain "redouts" otherwise? Or "high-G black outs"?

Yes, blood will pool in your upper body when upside down, but it also means that overall circulation, and therefore oxygen distribution, will decrease.

You are confusing hypoxia with hypoxemia. One isn't necessarily predicated by the other [One can have hypoxia without necessarily having hypoxemia]

Being horizontal is another matter entierly, and I can almost guarantee you that no one is going to tell you to hold someone who just fainted upside down.

Doesn't have to be held "upside down" - the purpose of the modified Trendlenburg is to rush blood from the lower extremities to the brain by elevating the lower limbs and keeping the head at level or lower than the heart.


Look, I'm not saying that people won't feel "funny" from hanging upside down for a while - its the one major reason kids in playgrounds still do it.

But hypoxia has nothing to do with it in as much as increase in ICP does.


Strangulation/choking causes hypoxia. Standing on your head doesn't.



cheers,

 

[Imagine]

Fair enough.

 

[Aegis]

Seems like we have some scientists and/or medical professionals here. But what say you experts to the fact that none of us have ever heard of a pornstar or most likely of a girl in general being choked to death accidentally during sex, and you know how much of this stuff goes on, in movies or otherwise, I'm sure.

I have heard about people being choked to death during such sexual acts. I have no idea of how great the risk is, but it certainly is something that happens.