Quantity v. Quality v. Metric Meta-Discussion #237
I am sure no records are kept on such things. Good luck. Myself I really wouldn't care. lol LL
I don't know if it's a male thing that drives such desire for summation and statistics that seems to infiltrate everything (e.g., baseball batting statistics), but so many men seem to be set on quantity.
I remember several people here were quick to slam me with "you mean you've only had intercourse with 2 women?" after first meeting me, utterly ignoring the entire "quality" of all my experiences with women who I remember as individuals, not numbers.
And in the end, the quality I have with my wife is all that matters to me now. In fact, even when we make love, we don't rush it, and if we are interrupted, we'd rather stop and come back to it later than complete it just to complete it.
It ain't a game. There is no time limit. There is not some rate or average you must maintain or want to achieve. Hell, sometimes the best number of "fucks" is just one -- because there is a lifetime to be had in just one, beautiful experience.
Maybe that doesn't financially bode well for pornstars, but there are some who have stories of their favorite lover on camera and those they prefer to work with. How many men a woman has had, at a time, over time, etc... really doesn't turn me on any more or less than who she is and how she makes me feel on her own.