I loss my best friend to morbid obesity, its misery and health effects. While ten years ago many of these type surgeries were available, many insurances would not cover them. Such was the case of my friend, who eventually succumbed to diabetes, circulatory problems, amputation and soon after death. Had it been as readily available and routine as it is now, I think she would still be alive.
I think of this issue daily. I think that in understanding that people who are in this place in their life are suffering a mental illness as well as physical ones. Only then can you open your mind to what a difference the surgery can make, but to how it can be handled in the big picture to benefit a person. Many aren't aware of this and only see sloth.
To have had the surgery and lost weight would have given back self worth she had long ago lost. Mentally helping her to to "take the bull by the horns" so to speak and begin to have the strength and desire to control this demon herself. Giving her back pride and ending the hopelessness would have been a great step in the right direction. It is an addiction/disease, but unlike drugs and alcohol you have to eat in order to live. Its kinda like telling a alcoholic, you can drink but only a 1/2 oz. a day, or a drug addict OK but only one hit. It doesn't work.
I do feel it in some instances is being abused, I know a women who had it done and was not even really fat. Maybe 35 pounds overweight and looking for the easy way out. That's pure lazy. I feel patients morbidly obese after having counselling etc. should have it done. Along with more counseling as the butterfly emerges. Its my understanding that there are several methods that are a temporary fix and can be removed/reversed. So that there are no long term effects. I think that by the time these people lose the weight, get a grip on their problem through therapy and feel better about themselves they could do it on their own. I only wish my friend had of been given the chance.
Note: Now everyone knows why I defend rotten comments on obese women. My friend was the most personable, caring, giving person I've ever known. Leaving many better for having known her.
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