What to do when you fall in love with an "easy" girl?

[raven_azrael]

Imagine you have fell in love with a a girl with whom you can talk about everything, is nice, good listener and talker. Said that she doesn..t like guys who are not good dancers, but is in a relationship with one that can..t and she tries to make it work, despite that and other 10 differences. But she is your best friend right know and you know that she has been slutty when she was single and allow guys with whom she went out to see her naked at webcam and was with a guy who said he broke up with a gf but the guy told everyone that she was gonna marry... and in fact did it. She then was too drunk that almost f&cked with a colleage she said was "horrendus" and sweard she would neve do that. Well then allowed a male stripper to slap her with his dick in a "female party for a girl who was gonna marry" (sorry dont know the word in english) and some other things. she has great boobs and i may be obssesed too... She is a relationship now, and is respecting his bf, but she still allows the guys she used to date to talk naughty to her on msn.... I don..t know if i am in love, I like her as person, but i don..t like that behaivour.... Is it right to go after her.... can i trust her? I would love to f$ck her, but she is my best friend. Don..t want to ruin that. she ackowledge she has done wrong in the past, but would she change. Should I care to try to be with her. The obvious advice would be, just f$ck her, but I guess I like her to be in a serious relationship, but the other aspect bothers me.. What would you do?

BTW she is the girl that sees me as a brother ( i explain that in my blog), but i will take my chances and just ask why "we can..t try"

 

[Torre82]

Easy girls? They're easy. If you can fulfill all her needs, then you're the one keeping her true. Not her. Fulfill... satisfy.. and hope. That's the way mine have always been. Good luck.

 

[raven_azrael]

Re: What to do when you fall in love with an "slutty" girl?

Easy girls? They're easy. If you can fulfill all her needs, then you're the one keeping her true. Not her. Fulfill... satisfy.. and hope. That's the way mine have always been. Good luck.

But with all her past, wouldn´t it bother you?

 

[Philbert]

You're too judgemental for her...let her find happiness with someone who can deal with her as she is.
Actually be her friend...

 

[pikachar]

Did this once, in a far away state called Indiana. She was easy, fell for the bad boy type, and really didn't know how to act around people who want a piece, but didn't act on it.

The full jist:
We became friends, and bs'd a lot. Not a big deal, then when she was going through the phase of I'm with this one, till the next guy... She even asked me one, your a good friend, and I know you want me why don't you do anything. Simple response was, "Hey I'm getting sex from (insert girl's name), so why would i need sex from you?" Push came to shove, and she pointed out something that I didn't know... that my former ex/fiancee was a cold bitch towards everyone I knew. So she helped me break that off, we went out, that went south, and thank god.... no where near the state anymore.

To keep it simple, yeah if you can fulfill her needs, shit works out. I'm married now, to a great girl. If you do it, make sure that it is what you want, if you don't know about the love, then smash the idea... better to be friends than mortal enemies. Just my :2 cents:

 

[raven_azrael]

Thanx guys... I don´t know... would like to try and make it work.... i will try to bring the issue about "we" to the table this week...if the circumstances allow it

 

[Sushi!]

dude... she called you her brother? it's a no-go. unless you wanna just sleep with her and never be in contact again; it's a no-go. if you do sleep and try to be friends she WILL ALWAYS in the back of her mind go

"i slept with my brother"

seriously my advice is you just got to get away. people are always going to fall for whoever is within their proximity ( why employees always date eachother or theres conflict in that area). after a year and you still got goo gaga feelings for her then you can call her up sees hows she doing.

and then after that you realize that shes changed or hasn't changed and you changed and you know that you guys are not compatible but you still jack off to her at night then by all means after a year you won't have that brother label and you'll be in the clear.

... talkin from past experience...

 

[T_C]

You're too judgemental for her...let her find happiness with someone who can deal with her as she is.
Actually be her friend...

I have to totally agree with Philbert. My advice though is look after her as if she was your sister. Take care of her.

 

[Will E Worm]

What to do when you fall in love with an "easy" girl?

Run the other way. An easy female will eventually cheat on you.

But with all her past, wouldn´t it bother you?

Yes, it would. She should just be in porn, if she likes to have sex that much.

You're too judgemental for her...let her find happiness with someone who can deal with her as she is.
Actually be her friend...

He's not judgmental. He's thinking before he starts something with this nut.

 

[Ashleigh]

If her past bugs you that much, just don't date her?? If she's as "easy" as you say, she likely won't want to be in a committed relationship anyways so problem solved.

 

[Hypergalaxy]

I am a little confused will the OP and if you are saying that she IS dating already?? If she is dating already then no I wouldnt bother trying to sleep with her. You dont want to be the "other" guy and if she is single and you are just concerned about getting into a relationship with her because you are worried if she will be loyal then express those feelings to her and depending on her reaction go from there

 

[Marlo Manson]

IMHO it depends how much you care for this girl.. she thinks of you as a brother! unfortunately I don't think there's anyway to change that! Either fuck her and most likely lose or damage your relationship / friendship! if you respect her, but you can't live without her as your friend you definitely have to lose your obsession to sleep with her!

Sorry to be blunt, but if not your gonna drive yourself NUTTY thinking about her, and your options regarding her!

If your just obessesed with sleeping with her cuz of her big breasts, then you maybe think you care about her, but you really don't care about her like you think you do? (really not in love with her personality) just her assests! and therefore you just want to sleep with her?

You have to dechipher if its her mind and personality? or her body / breasts that your in love with? :dunno:

 

[Sushi!]

dude... she called you her brother? it's a no-go. unless you wanna just sleep with her and never be in contact again; it's a no-go. if you do sleep and try to be friends she WILL ALWAYS in the back of her mind go

"i slept with my brother"

seriously my advice is you just got to get away. people are always going to fall for whoever is within their proximity ( why employees always date eachother or theres conflict in that area). after a year and you still got goo gaga feelings for her then you can call her up sees hows she doing.

and then after that you realize that shes changed or hasn't changed and you changed and you know that you guys are not compatible but you still jack off to her at night then by all means after a year you won't have that brother label and you'll be in the clear.

... talkin from past experience...

seriously... that sushi guy knows what he's saying:bowdown:

like i said and others have said earlier... she called you brother... it takes a disappearing act to get rid of that "brother"

why i say disappearing act - its because you probably act like a brother to her. you haven't slept with her yet you know that she got her face slapped by a male strippers dick. why you're called brother.

Trust Sushi take a year away from her - yes a year - it aint that long - get your mind on your career other girls friends and of course family but not HER!

after a year ring her up see where shes at and if you feel that 'spark' she won't even remember she called you "brother" :thumbsup:

but you gotta take that year off... you can text her on occasions call her on occasions but no deep shit you're not her brother. stop acting like it. fill your own pants and i'm telling you after a year you'll know. it's cliche but true love can withstand anything. expecially a year of no contact.

by confronting her or bringing up "we" is only going to cause confusion and disturbance in her brain and she'll be going "great now the guy i talk too wants to fuck me too, but he's such a great guy, but im with this other guy" that's when she'll probably go " why did you have to do this" or something along the lines of that. trust me dangerous waters... you gotta wait for the waters to calm, when they are calm and if you still feel like going in itt'll be easier.

in all considerations i'm trying to get you to avoid a mindfuck. you don't want to be up all night thinking this that and that... avoid all the B.S get on with your life.

 

[Wainkerr99]

Dude... you are obviously looking for more in a relationship. Seek and you will find. Go for the good. You probably deserve better.

 

[Bone]

you understand that you are obsessed with her. normally, that is not healthy but who says we have to be perfect? just let things go as they are now. things will work out eventually. i wouldn't push her to have sex. if she wants to, she'll let you know. you risk her friendship if you have sex with her. is it worth it? there's your answer.

fwiw, i have developed a similar relationship with someone. while it's fun talking to her, having sex is always in the back of mind because she is a pure knockout. it's titillating mentally, fortunately i get all the sex i need and don't have the physical need and she currently has a boyfriend but says she's not in love. she's really cool. i am ready if she wants to but no way do i make the first move. we've become very close over the last eight months and i love it - and want to keep it that way. :thumbsup:

 

[anomaly]

You don't fall in love with those girls. If you do just find someone else or you and the girl could leave town.:yinyang:

 

[raven_azrael]

Sushi! has made sense... I was planning on dissapearing...but i am also thinking to get her to tell me what is wrong with me during the week... just taking risks... Also yu guys are right, there may be lots of better girls out there... that is why i guess i should dissapear, but she is really enjoyable and a nice person... stay tune till next week. lol

 

[zxasqw12]

I'd just shag her then bag her xD

 

[IsobelWren]

Re: What to do when you fall in love with an "slutty" girl?

But with all her past, wouldn´t it bother you?

If you're living in the past, how can you ever hope to find a girl who is present?

 

[raven_azrael]

Re: What to do when you fall in love with an "slutty" girl?

If you're living in the past, how can you ever hope to find a girl who is present?

Thanx... I really wanted to read that...that makes me feel more confident of taking the risk