For me, it depends on if it is FM or FF. I like watching women lick each other. I don't mind watching a man licking her pussy but not for long...because I start saying "Get your face out of my way dude! I don't need a close-up of you!".
I like all of the things on this list, but if I had to choose it would be anal. Again, I dig it (in women), but not nearly as much as vaginal. I also find the moments when the man pulls out to show how 'open' her asshole is to be an odd and cartoonish move and not attractive. I also hate it when there is too much of it in a scene. When that's all he fucks, or mostly all he fucks. I don't like it. If a dvd has 'anal' in the title, then I probably won't buy it.