Use of language here

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I was bemused to receive this comment accompanying some neg rep.

''Would you have any objections to your ****** being referred to as a slut??? / Respect, asshole.''

I hear porn stars referring to themselves as sluts all the time.

When then, is it a problem for others here to say the same - in porn terms, it's a compliment.

I'm also not sure why it's not ok to call a porn star a slut, but is ok to call someone here an asshole.

I'd welcome views from across the spectrum on this one.