Toys

[JaanaRuutu]

I only own one. I bought it from Ann Summers last summer(tehe) because someone paid me to use it for a custom video. It's relatively small compared to others I've seen, and I hate it. It's good for making encouragement videos and simulated blowjobs, but as far as an orgasm, no chance.

I've always been all about using my fingers. one inside me, one on my clit. Most guys are fine with it, but lately I've been getting a lot of people conatcting me for shows who are total dicks when they find out I don't like toys. Am I wrong in thinking there should be something sexy about a woman saying "sorry, I'm too tight for that"?

 

[FreeOnes_Anders]

http://photos.freeones.com/n_babes/Naughty_Alysha_002/html/photo_006.shtml

Anything smaller than that is just wasted, ask Zdenka, he´ll tell you all about how you need to prepare for them big dicked bastards!

 

[Mayhem]

You're always going to get the requests. One option is to tell people that you can fake it with a toy, or have a real orgasm with your fingers.

 

[Roald]

You're always going to get the requests. One option is to tell people that you can fake it with a toy, or have a real orgasm with your fingers.

exactly, now they want a toy, next they want a fist up your arse. Just do whatever you're comfortable with.

 

[FreeOnes_Anders]

Just be careful though, you don't want to go to far.

 

[288gto]

i have a toy, and i love it, it's best fun i have during the day, it's a RC ferrari 430 cup, i do play with it in front of my house, just imagine when i drift it!

 

[SabrinaDeep]

What The Fonzie said. Do what you like, no exceptions. Eventually consider to figure something out to make your fingering "different", "more appealing" to those who look for more extreme visuals, if you feel that you are suffering from a lack of interest. I don't know, involve some yogurt, get to find you gspot and squirt if you don't do already, be verbal...i mean, be creative, but always foing what you like or you will start hating this job very soon.

 

[squallumz]

don't count them all out. some girls are very particular. i used to work at a high end adult store and sold tons of toys to girls who weren't all that much into them at all.

several came back saying thanks for the advice, needing new batteries and lube, and even getting replacements for wearing them out.

experiment in your own time, you never know. some of the best are quite cheap.

 

[Harley Spencer]

Agreeing with everyone else here. You need to do what's best for you, not someone else. Toys aren't for everyone.

 

[JaanaRuutu]

Oh, believe me - I didn't plan on changing my ways, I just find it interesting how many guys seem completely uninterested in watching me use my fingers.

Though I have been considering getting a butt plug..

 

[288gto]

harley is right.

 

[SabrinaDeep]

Well, there are not only your fingers thanks God and guys are interested in other people and things as well. It's all about captivating those interested in you and your fingers and some undecided ones

 

[StanScratch]

Back when I went to lots and lots of cam shows, I found myself enjoying shows with fingers a lot more than I did shows with toys. With fingers, it seemed a lot more intimate.

 

[L3ggy]

http://photos.freeones.com/n_babes/Naughty_Alysha_002/html/photo_006.shtml

Anything smaller than that is just wasted, ask Zdenka, he´ll tell you all about how you need to prepare for them big dicked bastards!

He'd think that would be too small.

 

[Harley Spencer]

Many guys actually like it when girls use their fingers instead of toys. I tend to use toys more than my fingers for videos because I'm the opposite of you, I get off with toys, very rarely with just fingers. For me, my fingers don't provide enough stimulation, whereas for some girls, toys provide too much stimulation.

It also depends on what kind of toy you're using. Glass dildos, realistic dildos, bullet vibrators, rabbit vibrators, anal beads, butt plugs, electric shock toys, etc. all provide different types of stimulation. For me, regular dildos do absolutely nothing for me to get me off, I have to use a vibrator. They feel good but they'll never get me off. I'd have to seriously focus 100% of my energy and concentration to get off with just a dildo, and with porn that's impossible because there's so many other things I have to give my attention to other than just how I'm feeling, so focusing 100% on the sensations is just not going to happen for an audience.

Maybe something you can try is different types of toys and using them differently. Not all of them need to be used inside of you. For me, it actually works better when I only use it on my clit, going inside just doesn't get me there.

In any case, don't worry about what anyone says about what they'd rather see you do. That's your decision to make, don't let it get it you too much. Everyone has something they'd prefer to see a girl do, and not every girl is going to do everything, so if they want to see something that you can't or don't want to provide, there is a huge market out there for them to explore.

 

[SabrinaDeep]

Not all of them need to be used inside of you

Very true. However be prepared to be constantly asked to use them inside you. If guys see you handling something that to their eyes needs a house they'll ask you to house it. So, if you lose your patience quickly, well...don't encourage them lol

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

This topic is disappointing. I was looking forward to discussing my childhood love of Legos...

By the way, do NOT put Legos inside you. Sharp edges. Not.. that... I would, ya know, know anything about that, like firsthand or anything... :uohs: ... stop looking at me like that!

 

[Chopper3000]

Health & Safety police here. Under no circumstances should a Millenium Falcon be shoved up the ring piece and/or the bearded clam. I think that covers the toys & genital argument. I thank you.

 

[Harley Spencer]

Very true. However be prepared to be constantly asked to use them inside you. If guys see you handling something that to their eyes needs a house they'll ask you to house it. So, if you lose your patience quickly, well...don't encourage them lol

Right of course. I do use toys inside me, all the time for photos and videos, but when it's time for me to cum I have to take it out and use it on just my clit. Everything leading up to my orgasm though is fair game, whether it's licking, teasing, fondling, sticking stuff inside me, I'll do it, but when it comes to my orgasm, I gotta do what I gotta do. Other than that I'm pretty much happy to oblige

 

[Chopper3000]

I never get off on seeing a woman using a toy. I just think my hands, fingers, lips, tongue & penis could do a better job.