I agree with clintreaver. Some of the stuff out there is so demeaning, unsexy, and simply disturbing in some cases.
I mean, seriously...what is sexy about seeing a beautiful, fresh-faced woman taking it in the face from 3 guys at the same time? It's not erotic...it's a vulgar way to treat a woman.
I saw a video once where Kia Delao was letting some older, out-of-shape guy unload in her mouth. The entire time, she has this look on her face like "Please help me." She is beautiful, and she was doing that. Don't know if she thought she had to "pay dues" or what by doing that, but I threw that video away after seeing it.