STDs: escorts and one night stands

[surferchick83]

so 2 questions related to the same issue:

Does anyone know whether all those legitimate escort services are safe? As in, are all their models STD free?

Secondly, suppose you're having a pretty good time with a random girl, and there's a possibility that it could turn into a one night stand. How do you find out whether she has any STDs? Is there any polite/nonoffensive way to do it?

Thanks for all your advices!

 

[Dro50]

For your first question there's a couple threads discussing that topic.

The second one though...damn thats a tough one. I'm a brutaly honest person and thank god that question has never popped up before my dick did. I think you'll just have to trust in a condomn. That's the only way you won't have to show ahead of time that you're thinking about fucking instead of thinking about them (some girls find it offensive) and your chances of getting STD's are significantly lower. Bite the rubber bullet and wear a condomn buddy!

 

[Kingfisher]

There's always a potential risk. I feel that escorts are more up on health awareness than some random girl or guy in a bar who has had one too many drink and is more likely to do things unprotected.
A sex-worker or sex-professional has thier own best intrests in mind, never forget that, they act like it's all about you, "act." They stroke your ego and make you feel good, it's just like car sales, but just a different seat and airbags.
Use your gut feeling, if the person "feels" wrong, move on, there's no shame.

 

[surferchick83]

For your first question there's a couple threads discussing that topic.

The second one though...damn thats a tough one. I'm a brutaly honest person and thank god that question has never popped up before my dick did. I think you'll just have to trust in a condomn. That's the only way you won't have to show ahead of time that you're thinking about fucking instead of thinking about them (some girls find it offensive) and your chances of getting STD's are significantly lower. Bite the rubber bullet and wear a condomn buddy!

how about after you and the girl do decide to do a one night stand, would it be ok to ask before you do it then?

also, sorry but do you know where some threads discussing the escorts are? thanks!

 

[dave_rhino]

Well, if your gona have a one night stand, the chances are the girl will want to use a condom aswell. And hell, so should you.

Saying "Are you clean?" to a girl is gona turn her right off...

 

[Dro50]

how about after you and the girl do decide to do a one night stand, would it be ok to ask before you do it then?

also, sorry but do you know where some threads discussing the escorts are? thanks!

If it's really bothering you the best way to find out anything is by use of humor. Claim u have it and brag about it in a joking matter "I have the nicest crabs in all of alabama" Iono whateva kinda humor u want. If she can joke about than chances are that she's clean. Or you can tell her that you got checked...which u should do anyways... to make sure u were clean before you had sex with her.

As for the escort threads...scroll down this thread and you'll find some info.

 

[sammy402002]

If it's really bothering you the best way to find out anything is by use of humor. Claim u have it and brag about it in a joking matter "I have the nicest crabs in all of alabama" Iono whateva kinda humor u want. If she can joke about than chances are that she's clean. Or you can tell her that you got checked...which u should do anyways... to make sure u were clean before you had sex with her.

As for the escort threads...scroll down this thread and you'll find some info.

Wow,Dro--The second part of the advice is good in My opinion(saying that You are clean)to open the conversation,But the first part(joking about it) would backfire nine times out of ten in My opinion.Don't want to put out that spark with a bad joke.But,then again,with a few cocktails in Her,the humor may work,but I would be afraid to try it.I would go the serious approach.

 

[BNF]

I think that "never trust anyone" applies in both of your examples.

It's your life, you need to be in charge and in control. Wrap it up.

Even if you have a verifiable copy of her test results, there is always a delay of c3 months for HIV, so that's still not a guarantee. And in the "pro's" case, the customer before you may have left something behind, albeit maybe not devastating...

The normal, random girl statistically is safer, but why take chances?

Let me tell you - there a few things worse in the world than the tidal wave of guilt, fear and anxiety that seems to hit seconds after you release your swimmers. And, you're stuck with that for 3 months.... every day, every night, every minute, until you can get a (you pray) clean score.

Not worth the, at minimum, stress and anxiety, not worth the chance of ending your life early.

 

[Dro50]

Whew there sure is a lot of paranoia in here lol no but the paranoia is definately justified. I think surfer should do what he feels is best for him but more than anything...Wrap it up!!!!:condom:

 

[member006]

I think that "never trust anyone" applies in both of your examples.

It's your life, you need to be in charge and in control. Wrap it up.

Even if you have a verifiable copy of her test results, there is always a delay of c3 months for HIV, so that's still not a guarantee. And in the "pro's" case, the customer before you may have left something behind, albeit maybe not devastating...

The normal, random girl statistically is safer, but why take chances?

Let me tell you - there a few things worse in the world than the tidal wave of guilt, fear and anxiety that seems to hit seconds after you release your swimmers. And, you're stuck with that for 3 months.... every day, every night, every minute, until you can get a (you pray) clean score.

Not worth the, at minimum, stress and anxiety, not worth the chance of ending your life early.

:thumbsup: Well said.

Whew there sure is a lot of paranoia in here lol no but the paranoia is definately justified. I think surfer should do what he feels is best for him but more than anything...Wrap it up!!!!:condom:

LL :glugglug:

 

[sammy402002]

I think that "never trust anyone" applies in both of your examples.

It's your life, you need to be in charge and in control. Wrap it up.

Even if you have a verifiable copy of her test results, there is always a delay of c3 months for HIV, so that's still not a guarantee. And in the "pro's" case, the customer before you may have left something behind, albeit maybe not devastating...

The normal, random girl statistically is safer, but why take chances?

Let me tell you - there a few things worse in the world than the tidal wave of guilt, fear and anxiety that seems to hit seconds after you release your swimmers. And, you're stuck with that for 3 months.... every day, every night, every minute, until you can get a (you pray) clean score.

Not worth the, at minimum, stress and anxiety, not worth the chance of ending your life early.

Damn....I am so glad that I have a good Woman and I am no longer out there "hunting".It is good to be with one person.I can't imagine how the porn people sleep at night.You make it seem pretty gloomy BMF,I guess it is.It is a breeding ground for HIV in the porn and escort industries.

 

[Red Spyder]

This reminds me of a song sung to the tune of the Macarena:

One night I’m go have a Margarita;
Cruise down ********my favorite cantina.
On the corner – there’s a nice babe-
If she likes me, I might even get laid.
Come with me – got a stiffy –
And, if you’re good, I’ll give you a fifty
One summer night, I’m a go for tortilla -
Mexican village; met a girl named Juanita.
Stupid old me – I forgot to wrap my wiener…
Hey, gonorrhea!

Two more Dos Equis and I paid the jalapenos.
Out to the parking lot to the back-a seat-a.
Now every morning it’s a-hurt-a when I pee-a,
Hey, gonorrhea!

Down to the clinic for the doctor to-a see-a;
Out came the needle and he stuck it in my rear.
Friday night I’m going back to see my sweet Juanita…
Hey, gonorrhea!

One summer night, I’m a go for tortilla -
Mexican village; met a girl named Juanita.
Stupid old me – I forgot to wrap my wiener…
Hey, gonorrhea!

 

[DRZ74]

so 2 questions related to the same issue:

Does anyone know whether all those legitimate escort services are safe? As in, are all their models STD free?

Secondly, suppose you're having a pretty good time with a random girl, and there's a possibility that it could turn into a one night stand. How do you find out whether she has any STDs? Is there any polite/nonoffensive way to do it?

Thanks for all your advices!

I have a wealth of knowledge in this area .. maybe too much. Let me be very direct. .... Are escort services are safe? ... many are , some aren't. You just gotta try them to know. You will find your experiences will vary. Tha't just fact.

How do you find out whether she has any STDs? .. ask her striaght out like this, "Hey baby, I just wanna know before we do anything, am I gonna catch anything or what?" .. if you wanna live then ask this without hesitation or shyness. :thumbsup:

Good luck and always wear a rubber.

 

[BNF]

I have a wealth of knowledge in this area .. maybe too much.

You still didn't give him any information that actually helps.

"many are, some aren't" - What is that supposed to mean and how does that possibly help?

Even if you ask and she answers, you are betting your life, or at least your health that:

1) She is telling you the truth.
2) That she even knows the answer in the first place.

 

[member57674]

HIV can have an incubation period of up to 6 months, so you can get tested one or three months after having sex with a person, but you can't be sure until 6 months+.

Just an FYI. :hatsoff:

 

[surferchick83]

alright, so i guess i know what to do in a random girl situation (or at least know the risks), but i'm still ignorant about what to expect from escort services. if anyone has any more knowledge about these or has reliable facts about which services are safe, i'd appreciate it. thanks a lot.

 

[BNF]

if anyone has any more knowledge about these or has reliable facts about which services are safe

I give up.

 

[Iamforever]

alright, so i guess i know what to do in a random girl situation (or at least know the risks), but i'm still ignorant about what to expect from escort services. if anyone has any more knowledge about these or has reliable facts about which services are safe, i'd appreciate it. thanks a lot.

all i know is that in nevada (outside of clark county) escorts and such are legal. thus they are required to get tested regularly. if they are caught doing their job while they knew they had a disease, they could get charged with manslaughter. outside of nevada, i havent a fucking clue. but, if you are so paranoid about escorts, why are you even thinking about hiring one? :dunno: