Should I just forget about her?

So I posted something awhile back about a lady I was into. I finally asked her out and she said: Is it a date? You should invite your friend Paul. lol. She also said she'd have to ask her bf which I thought she was single. It turns out she does have a bf....IN THE PHILLIPINES. She met him the last time she was there.....4 YEARS AGO!!!. She still is like devoted to a dude she hasnt seen in 4 years....4 YEARS!!!. I found this out and was like wow. I think it's time for me to move on...she obviously has some serious insecruity issues if she's still hung up on a guy she hasnt seen in 4 years and might not see for a long time. I'm not sure whether to call it devotion...or just plain insanity.
 
If she really clicked with someone it doesn't mean she has insecurity issues, it means she's got commitment. If this boyfriend of hers is real there's nothing wrong with her wanting to be faithful to him. It sounds to me like she's either really committed to him, or she's not really into you, either way I would think it's time for you to move on.
 

TheOrangeCat

AFK..being taken to the vet to get neutered.
I call it the worst brush-off excuse in the history of brush-off excuses.

I believe it was Euripides who, in 400BC, first postulated that 'bitches be crazy'. No-one has yet proven the great dramatist wrong.

Move on? Not good enough. Run in the opposite direction as fast as your little legs will carry you, and don't EVER look back.
 

Ace Bandage

The one and only.
If you behave in real life as you do on this board, I could see why a fictional boyfriend 8,000 miles away would be a more suitable alternative.
 

Rey C.

Racing is life... anything else is just waiting.
I call it the worst brush-off excuse in the history of brush-off excuses.

I believe it was Euripides who, in 400BC, first postulated that 'bitches be crazy'. No-one has yet proven the great dramatist wrong.

Move on? Not good enough. Run in the opposite direction as fast as your little legs will carry you, and don't EVER look back.

This^

Euripides... never... wrong.
 
Move on man.......:)
For a guy with a girl - there is only ONE girl!
For a guy without a girl - there are a THOUSAND girls waiting to be taken!!
So, brush up, move on and enjoy yourself!
 
gloy?
 
No. Cleave to her. Call her a minimum of 20 times a day. Send her expensive gifts and large, glossy pictures of your penis. She'll be yours in no time.
 

LukeEl

I am a failure to the Korean side of my family
Just move on there are way too many fine women out in the buffett line of life.
 
How will you be able to stalk her if you forget about her?
 
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