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No, I was always the weird quiet girl in elementary school that everyone was afraid to talk to. I wasn't a bully, and I don't remember being bullied by anyone. I had one friend...a girl named Heather (yes squallumz, HEATHER)...and she'd always stick up for me if anyone said mean things. She may have also been the first girl I was attracted to...that or my best friend in 7th grade.
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I used to get accused of being a bully.
My school was so obsessed with bullying that even an argument would be concidered "bullying". And because i was quite well known around the school as being a bit of a rebel and a joker, if i ever got into disputes/fights, it would always be ME in the wrong.
And i'd never get bullied because... I dunno... I guess the tough **** just liked me.
When i got a lot older i'd always be helping out in the **** in lower years(grades) who had problems with bullies. I'd never lay a finger on them, but if i ever caught them doing it i'd threaten them a little, just to scare them.
But then of course, that would get me into even more trouble...
My school was so obsessed with bullying that even an argument would be concidered "bullying". And because i was quite well known around the school as being a bit of a rebel and a joker, if i ever got into disputes/fights, it would always be ME in the wrong.
And i'd never get bullied because... I dunno... I guess the tough **** just liked me.
When i got a lot older i'd always be helping out in the **** in lower years(grades) who had problems with bullies. I'd never lay a finger on them, but if i ever caught them doing it i'd threaten them a little, just to scare them.
But then of course, that would get me into even more trouble...
Iamforever
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nope, never bullied. all the so-called "tough" **** were stoners like me. we always got along. there was a common bond between us. 
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I've heard today, that opposed to being, 'weird,' if you go to school for an education, and only speak when you are naturally spoken to: you are, 'the guy who is going to shoot up the school.'
squallumz
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mmmmm... heather.. why does that so sexy to me! seriously, it drives me crazy.
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sputnikgirl
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Did you see the movie "Heathers"? Maybe you were attracted to the people in the movie? I guess it's one of those names that could imply both innocence and dirtiness. :dunno:
squallumz
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mmm multiple heathers.... *drools*
ive turned it one for a little bit after i read the description, so i havent really really watched it. i dont rememeber being insanely attracted to anyone on there in particular but a heather is a heather, and i love that name. (what a weird fetish, no?)
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sputnikgirl
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I wonder if anyone has a fetish for my name? Doubt it.
i've never been bullied or picked on. i got, and still get along with most people i meet. i don't remember many bullies in grade school, middle, or high school. everybody pretty much had somebody to stick up for them if **** ever happened. i've stuck up for many people that weren't my friends when others were giving them a hard time and that usually dissolved the situation. so to answer your question, no memories of being bullied or bullying.
and remember, don't take **** from anybody. that way you can't be bullied.
and remember, don't take **** from anybody. that way you can't be bullied.
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Thank you! Inspiring post, I have not experienced that much bullying aside from the occasional sports hazing, which was irritating. I was recently watching a documentary on Columbine, and I have been wrongly bullied by my own ****** members, in my estimation. Good post.
squallumz
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ive been picked on many many times back in the day. but thats what happens when youre in karate. everyone wants to fight you.
now, i dont take no one's ****. if you act like youre better than me, im gonna let you know where u stand. perhaps im bitter, but i am no ones doormat.
now, i dont take no one's ****. if you act like youre better than me, im gonna let you know where u stand. perhaps im bitter, but i am no ones doormat.
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How and where I grew up was probably a bit different than most here. Plus I'm a girl. I lived in a very nice part of town, but in the big city. So just a few blocks away nearer my schools was the rough part. Many things you don't like to do can quickly become something you have to do to survive. I don't like ********, I don't like getting my ass kicked either. Thin line I had to walk, so being me I made my point to all. Shamefully I did fight as a young girl, but never like a girl. I have never pulled hair or scratched. I never started it either and would try to talk or walk away. Some people though just would continue to have to buy their ticket. soooooo......It was "just the way it was". Like many stupid things I outgrew it. Well mostly.
I have always been for the underdog so I was the one that kicked the bullies ass. I am not in any way proud of these facts, but it is a part of me, my growing and maturing. If it was an older bigger boy picking on the weak someone else from our "group" took it. We never let bullies pick on others. Nobody really would mess with us much at all either, so it didn't happen often. FYI not a gang, just a group that grew up together that by coincidence were all tough. lol.
Being a bully is the weakest form of attention getting. They have many issues and can be very dangerous later it life.
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I never started it either and would try to talk or walk away. Some people though just would continue to have to buy their ticket. soooooo......It was "just the way it was". Like many stupid things I outgrew it. Well mostly. I have always been for the underdog so I was the one that kicked the bullies ass. I am not in any way proud of these facts, but it is a part of me, my growing and maturing. If it was an older bigger boy picking on the weak someone else from our "group" took it. We never let bullies pick on others. Nobody really would mess with us much at all either, so it didn't happen often. FYI not a gang, just a group that grew up together that by coincidence were all tough. lol.
Being a bully is the weakest form of attention getting. They have many issues and can be very dangerous later it life.
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The ultra-masculine, lesbian, gym-teachers tend to have an ‘axe-to-grind’ against human men, and seemingly, humanity in general. This is not peculiar to those of the lesbian-persuasion; only, but in terms of my experiences with this gym-teacher type: it’s an observable phenomenon. They are known to go beyond the bounds of discipline, into unnecessary sadism, on students. They are bullies, which seem to be seeking revenge on students for past wrongdoings on themselves. The dynamics of their psychology is up for debate, I realize that they want students to show tremendous effort, and they cast their 'abusive' behavior as, educational.
But, I have witnessed, and heard about several out-of-hand incidents, with gym-teachers.
But, I have witnessed, and heard about several out-of-hand incidents, with gym-teachers.
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I had a bully pick on me in elementary, it became pretty bad. My parents eventually moved on to a different school district. When I had become older, larger, and skilled in protecting myself, I ran into him outside a Taco Bell in a nearby city. He recognized me and actually tried to pick up where he left off. I didn't want any of it and broke the cycle. And his wrist then his arm.
To be honest, later I thought back about it, one thing I didn't like how it sounded when I broke his arm, and I felt bad for him, that he hadn't changed in the least. I was protecting myself from an agressive person and I wholey don't condone my actions, but there is a time and place for everything, and protecting yourself is upmost. I just wish I had been more brave when I was a ***, to stand up to him then.
To be honest, later I thought back about it, one thing I didn't like how it sounded when I broke his arm, and I felt bad for him, that he hadn't changed in the least. I was protecting myself from an agressive person and I wholey don't condone my actions, but there is a time and place for everything, and protecting yourself is upmost. I just wish I had been more brave when I was a ***, to stand up to him then.
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You are entitled to your subjective thoughts, about my thoughts. I beg very largely to differ, as would the majority of PhD certified Psychologists: that have worked on this issue. If you are ever interested in delving into what lies underneath human action, at face value, here is a nice link to start:
http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/index.php?term=pto-19950901-000020&page=1
Are you.....a gym-teacher, by chance?
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No of course not, I just thought it funny how it followed my embarrassing admission of fighting when I was younger. Girls aren't suppose to street fight. Nothing at all masculine about me, believe it. I cry when I break a nail. lol I won't however be cornered or bullied either.
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No of course not, I just thought it funny how it followed my embarrassing admission of fighting when I was younger. Girls aren't suppose to street fight. Nothing at all masculine about me, believe it. I cry when I break a nail. lol I won't however be cornered or bullied either.
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:rofl: :rofl: I just thought about a hypothetical gym-teacher on here, looking at porno, after I made that posting to you. My 10th grade gym-teacher was how I described, the first day she said to the girls:
'I don't need to see your butts, and the guys are drooling.....' :rofl:
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I rarely bullied, and the times I did only in elementary school, to go with peer pressure, I felt guilty afterwards. (Like carrying a *** around the yard by his underwear with my mates.... It didn't feel right to bully.)
I was bullied physically only once or twice. I, unknowingly at the time, solved that issue in grade school with one event: Older **** were playing keep away with my lunch, which I didn't want anyway but it was mine, and instead of being the pickle in the middle chasing it, I tackled the leader and gave him a hard, elementary school beating - maybe I "won" because of the pure element of surprise. No more problems for almost a decade.
Sure by teenage years the were some verbal cracks at my expense, but I honestly can't remember even one of them specifically now, so they were never too bad. I was so concerned with so many other things in high school that I was lucky to just remember where my next class was, and I could never, ever remember my lock combinations... spacey, man, spacey..
EDIT - I was NOT a tough guy, at all, so I don't want that impression left by my post!!!!!
I was bullied physically only once or twice. I, unknowingly at the time, solved that issue in grade school with one event: Older **** were playing keep away with my lunch, which I didn't want anyway but it was mine, and instead of being the pickle in the middle chasing it, I tackled the leader and gave him a hard, elementary school beating - maybe I "won" because of the pure element of surprise.
No more problems for almost a decade.Sure by teenage years the were some verbal cracks at my expense, but I honestly can't remember even one of them specifically now, so they were never too bad. I was so concerned with so many other things in high school that I was lucky to just remember where my next class was, and I could never, ever remember my lock combinations... spacey, man, spacey..
EDIT - I was NOT a tough guy, at all, so I don't want that impression left by my post!!!!!
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