Relationship Advice Re: Cheating?

I've been with a girl for two years, we're very serious just shy of living together. Recently things have been tough and even impossible at times as alot of stress from the outside world has tainted our lives.

I recently got in touch with an ex, who I loved a long time ago...we were young, she was beautiful and we lost touch. While catching up, she admitted that she still thinks about me with other guys and told me about all the new talents she's gained since we were together...deepthroating to be one of them, ha. We talked, I'm in a relationship - nothing happened but we still talk and there's that tension there. I was EXTREMELY tempted but held off out of respect.

A few weeks ago I randomly discovered on my girls comp that she has been actively courting another guy, trading flirtatious emails with him and chatting with her friends about how she wants to hook up with him. I caught her last weekend tell me she was hanging out with friends but in her emails, she was planning to hang with him.

What do I do? I want things to work but is it beyond any hope? Call my ex? Break it off? Help.
 

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