I'm not sure, but I think I have seen that sometimes a fan wins some kind of interaction with a porn star. Whether it was just dinner, actual sex, or to be in a video, I don't know. Somebody else had a thread as to whether we (the fans) would marry one of them. I suspect the reverse of the question is far more relevant, so....
In the category of wondering whether some poor schlep like me ever had the chance to "win the heart of one of these women I love so dearly," has anyone ever heard of one of these ladies meeting a fan and actually falling in love with him and marrying him? Or at least dating him seriously? I have read in other threads here that when retired from the business, these ladies generally DO NOT like being recognized and shun interactions with fans who might recognize them. (I guess I can understand it but feel such a reaction must come from shame or because some of 'us' have given them bad experiences.) If that is true, it seems to rule out much chance of meeting them after they exit the industry and getting to know them. And as a reality check, sure, there is a lot to be learned about someone that you'll not see much through the screen - porn or not - but I do think there is a lot we can see. Senses of humor, demeanor, other aspects of their personality do come through somewhat. But maybe I'm just delusional and it's wishful thinking.
So if they met one of us and did get married, were they already retired? Still in the business? Any/all information and details greatly appreciated...
In the category of wondering whether some poor schlep like me ever had the chance to "win the heart of one of these women I love so dearly," has anyone ever heard of one of these ladies meeting a fan and actually falling in love with him and marrying him? Or at least dating him seriously? I have read in other threads here that when retired from the business, these ladies generally DO NOT like being recognized and shun interactions with fans who might recognize them. (I guess I can understand it but feel such a reaction must come from shame or because some of 'us' have given them bad experiences.) If that is true, it seems to rule out much chance of meeting them after they exit the industry and getting to know them. And as a reality check, sure, there is a lot to be learned about someone that you'll not see much through the screen - porn or not - but I do think there is a lot we can see. Senses of humor, demeanor, other aspects of their personality do come through somewhat. But maybe I'm just delusional and it's wishful thinking.
So if they met one of us and did get married, were they already retired? Still in the business? Any/all information and details greatly appreciated...
