My cat just died

[Supafly]

Maybe you havbe seen his picture in posts of mine, he was an old cat, just turned 14, and I adopted him 5 months ago, from the animal shelter.

He tried to crawl behind a shelf and got stuck when I was away this afternoon, and after I got him out he was very passive, breathing very< low and had a couple of heavy cramps.

He passed away just half an hour ago. I am just crying and crying.

What a bad ending for a day that started so nice.

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

I'm sorry, buddy. I've lost many animals in my life. I've taken in countless cats that ended up in my back yard looking for food. I think it's great that you adopted your cat at the age he was. You gave him love and companionship for the days he had remaining to him. Animals are always worthwhile and give a lot back. Remember the good times you had with your friend.

 

[Ace Boobtoucher]

That sucks. Rest in peace, tiddles.

 

[Supafly]

Rationally, I know he really loved the time we shared, he was very vicious back ion the shelter, and the ladies were afraid of him because he used to attack them any moment, very suddenly. With me, he became very calm and cuddly, and loved to snuggle up with me in the vening, purring happily.

We had a great time, and while I knew he would die eventually, and it could be not too far away, I hoped we would have some years.

I just have to get through the hurt.

Maybe it's best to get a new cat

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

Adopting another cat is saving another life. I took in this old cat once that was broken up like it had been hit by a car but survived. Considering the life it lead it was shocking how nice and trusting this animal was. I gave it the last 3 years living inside the house with as much luxury as I could give it. It ended up being a bit of a regal beast even though it walked crooked. When it died is when I went to the shelter to save another two. I would have grabbed one or more from my back yard but those ones are feral. They are my working animals and I reward them with good food too.

Adopt another cat but wait until you are ready. You'll know when. Your grieving process is very normal. I'm very sensitive when it comes to my animals too. Let it out and I hope you feel better.

 

[Supafly]

Thank you. The hurt is very fresh, eventually I will get through.

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

Thank you. The hurt is very fresh, eventually I will get through.

You will. My next door neighbor is a Persian fella. His Persian sister-in-law is crazy about dogs and spoils hers like crazy. I asked him if he was interested in getting a dog. He mentioned they die and he doesn't want to deal with the sadness. I told him some stories but stressed that you enjoy the life they have and the joy they bring you. It's all worth it. I'm not sure if I got through to him but I was comfortable with what I said too.

You'll get through it just fine. I lost a dog that I was very close to and couldn't leave the house in a decent emotional state for like 2 weeks. It's tough. Animals are family. Take time and be good to yourself. Always know you did a good thing and took good care of your buddy. He probably wouldn't had stood a chance if you weren't in his life.

 

[assari]

I'm sorry to hear this.

Your cat has received eternal peace and it is now in safe place.

 

[GodsEmbryo]

I'm sorry to hear that Fly. I know it's hard but be happy as well since you were able to give him 5 happy months. Keep strong

 

[sean miguel]

I'm sorry, supa. I know how much that hurts having experienced the same recently. Our animals bring so much joy to our lives and leave such a mark. And they're innocent.

He got the best 5 months with you in a loving home. And thank you for caring for them. Hang in there.

 

[Ace Boobtoucher]

It's moments like this, asshat, that make life worth living. If you never know sadness you will also never know joy.

 

[Jagger69]

I feel your pain, Fly. Out pets are family members. We appropriately grieve over their loss when it happens. Shame because they don't get to live as long a we do so the pain is especially acute in that regard. I'm am sorry for your personal loss....it's tough.

 

[Elwood70]

Sorry for your loss, that's one of the worst things to deal with. I'm going to go pet the cat I have left , and give her some catnip. She deserves a good buzz.

 

[Mr. Daystar]

I sorry dude. I know how you feel, and it isn't good. It's hard to loose a loved one, they're like our children.

 

[CrimsonBolt]

Sorry for your loss :crying:

Taken a new one won't replace him, but it would great for another one to have the chance to be loved.

R.I.P Mr. die Katze.

 

[Ace Boobtoucher]

Every time I see those ASPCA ads with Sarah McLachlan I get weepy.

 

[288gto]

I'm sorry to hear this.

Your cat has received eternal peace and it is now in safe place.


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he is in a place with 1000 nice pussy cats.

 

[288gto]

may he/she rest in peace, looks like he/she has been a stylish cat

 

[Supafly]

may he/she rest in peace, looks like he/she has been a stylish cat

He definitely was a very cool cat. And he packed quite a puch if he felt he had to lay down the law

 

[Supafly]

Sorry for your loss :crying:

Taken a new one won't replace him, but it would great for another one to have the chance to be loved.

R.I.P Mr. die Katze.

I think so, too. I had a very young one last december for four weeks, as her owner was in a mental instituition, was asked later if I could take the cat again, permanently, but already had Findus.