The Male G Spot, How to Stimulate the Prostate
by Ann Andriani
So women are not the only ones to have a g-spot. Although it’s not really called the g-spot on men, it’s called the Prostate. By stimulating the Prostate, you can bring your man to an extremely intense orgasm, just like when you stimulate a woman’s g-spot.
So, where is the Prostate?
The prostate is centered behind the lower part of the pubic arch and in front of the rectum. It’s about three inches inside the anus. The prostate is shaped kind of like a walnut and is of a firm consistency, surrounded by a capsule of fibrous tissue and smooth muscle. It measures about 4 centimeters across, 3 centimeters in height, and 2 centimeters from front to back.
Okay, now how do I stimulate the Prostate?
There are 2 ways: Internal Stimulation and External Stimulation.
For internal stimulation, you must lubricate, lubricate, lubricate. Either use a latex glove or a finger cot. Apply a thicker, anal lubricant, like Doc Johnson's Anal Lube, to your finger and slowly and carefully insert it into his rectum. Use a steady, gentle movement to push your finger into the rectum. Begin moving your finger in and out; this helps to relax the surrounding area. Once you’re both comfortable and your finger is fully inside, slowly and carefully curl your finger. Curling your finger allows you to massage his prostate. Continue this gentle massaging. Now, some men can orgasm from this alone and others need some other form of stimulation as well. If this is your first time, communicate, communicate, communicate. Find out where’s he’s at and what he wants you to do.For external stimulation, take your index finger and apply pressure on the area between his scrotum and anus. By putting pressure and massaging that area you are still massaging the prostate, but you don’t have to worry about any issues involving anal play!
Congratulations! You’ve tapped into something wonderful!
If you are allowed to internally stimulate the prostate, Congratulations! You have involved yourself in some very intimate activity! Most heterosexual men have difficulty allowing themselves to experience any type of anal play. Most men are brought up to believe that nothing gets inserted into the anus and if you like any type of anal play, than you must be homosexual. That’s just not true! If you do get the chance to internally stimulate your lover’s prostate, be very caring and compassionate. Your man is overcoming a lot of, possibly, deep rooted beliefs. Some men are ashamed and won’t allow themselves to enjoy anal play. But it is okay, in fact it could be a wonderful experience for them. It’s important for you to let your man know that if he desires that, it’s okay!
And I have also heard rave reviews from men about their partner externally stimulating them. Most men don’t even realize the effect that a little massage and pressure could have on them, especially when they’re ready to orgasm.
Whichever way you decide to do it, Good for you, you found a new way to excite and please your man!