:flame: this is for girls as well as guys, my fetish is dark eyes and staletto heels, very arousing for me... and as to getting me off..my wife reaches behind my nuts and slightly applies pressure with her finger...feels wonderful..makes the orgasm much more intense... so what gets you going and what gets you off? be truthful. no judgements are held here...i love hearing this stuff and it may give some-one else a new idea...thanks.