Is telling a girl...hot?
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ChuckFaze
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It'll definitely depend on the girl.
Tell it to the wrong girl and she's bound to think you're the scum of the Earth and let you know it.
On the other hand, IF you have a certain rapport with a girl, then it is no problem and she'll even get turned on by it. I used to have a female Internet friend with whom I had that type of rapport. Hey, she started it. She sent me the type of pictures of herself whereby what else was I going to say?
Tell it to the wrong girl and she's bound to think you're the scum of the Earth and let you know it.
On the other hand, IF you have a certain rapport with a girl, then it is no problem and she'll even get turned on by it. I used to have a female Internet friend with whom I had that type of rapport. Hey, she started it. She sent me the type of pictures of herself whereby what else was I going to say?
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I always think it's awkward/creepy/weird when people tell the OCSMs that they masturbated to their pics or vids earlier... but, hey, to each is own. I guess I don't really understand the rationale for saying it though.
Mandy Flores is hot. I'm pretty certain she's aware of that, but I understand saying "baby, you're hot" to her anyway. That's sort of a compliment. What I don't get is telling her something like "baby, I jerked my tater and blew a huge load to your video earlier." I just can't imagine a scenario where a female wants to hear that. It's sort of a compliment, but it's mostly just... well, strange. How do you even respond to that?
Mandy Flores is hot. I'm pretty certain she's aware of that, but I understand saying "baby, you're hot" to her anyway. That's sort of a compliment. What I don't get is telling her something like "baby, I jerked my tater and blew a huge load to your video earlier." I just can't imagine a scenario where a female wants to hear that. It's sort of a compliment, but it's mostly just... well, strange. How do you even respond to that?
I can't speak for all the ladies, but I personally find it a turn-on knowing that guys are jerking off to my pics and vids... although it's even hotter if they paid for them. I definitely don't mind hearing about it at all.
Before I entered the industry, I'm not sure how I would have reacted to hearing that from a guy I wasn't involved with. I probably would have just laughed it off.
I definitely don't mind hearing about it at all.Before I entered the industry, I'm not sure how I would have reacted to hearing that from a guy I wasn't involved with. I probably would have just laughed it off.
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I do it to romance 'em with my creepiness. I'll show the napkin too so they see how much goo for them.
In my eyes it's always fucking creepy unless you're seeing the girl and let her know you're jerking off thinking about her when you can't physically be together. Even then I don't think it's "hot" most of the time so much as expected. When I admitted to a girlfriend that I'd been tossing off thinking about her during a time apart it was almost an indignant "Well, I should hope so too!" because she thought I shouldn't need to jerk off to porn since I had her.
I was once playing a game of "I've never" in a mixed group where one of the girls said "I've never masturbated over anyone else at this table" and EVERY one of we men had to drink. There was a lot of sheepish looking at the floor on our side and a lot of laughing and "ewwww!" from their side. As a worst case scenario some girls can think of it as a violation, and I can see why. Jerking off over a girl you find attractive is kind of in the nature of male sexuality ; TELLING her is borderline sexpest.
The exception, of course, is when the girl lets you know in advance that she is OK with the thought of it, or actively encourages it.
God bless OCSMs.
For me, I don't think telling them is needed. I think most girls just assume I masturbate to them and rightly so.
Aaliyah Love
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Well.. it I my job to have people masturbate over me. I would be more concerned if they WEREN'T telling me that lol
But..if she's NOT a porn girl.. umm she probably won't appreciate it lol
LeyaFalcon
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If you're telling a porn girl, it's a compliment...a non porn girl it could be taken badly or it could be taken well..pretty risky
I've only told that to 6 women in my life, all within the past 2 years. All of them were flattered/turned on, at least they said they were. 3 of them used to send me personal pictures (1 of them was in a relationship). It just depends on the girl, like everything else.
As a general rule, I'd say this is correct. However, I'd never broadcast anything of that nature. Discretion is the better part of valor, better to remain silent and thought a fool than open your mouth and erase all doubt, and all that happy horseshit.
bobjustbob
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Those are very encouraging words. I'll be looking forward to the day that scenario manifests itself.
I mean, if you're talking to a girl who does porn and you know who she is, it's probably a given that it's happened at least once. Yeah, for the non-porn girl it's probably best to reserve it for the one's you're actually intimate with and not used as an ice breaker or pick-up line haha.
