I wanted a tattoo for years. The only people I knew that had them were incredibly cool, deep, talented and interesting people, usually with very cool interests and amazing tastes in music and movies that weren't mainstream and that I otherwise wouldn't have heard of, who liked to holiday off the beaten track and ate all manner of interesting foods I'd never heard of. Each was a completely unique person that had hardly anything in common with anyone else in "my circle" and they all had really interesting tattoos which told a particular story and had meaning behind them. If I go back five years, one of my subordinates had a lot of tattoos, and he was one of the coolest guys I had ever met. And he still is. I told him I had long considered a tattoo and he recommended his friend to me that did all of his. I've agonized for years over design and relevance of each element, and I'm nearly at the point where I'd know what I'd want and where.
Unfortunately, in the present, the terrible little suburb that I originate from (and thankfully have escaped, back to the glamour of the big city) is overran by tattoos. Every fucker has one now. People I've known for years have got sloppily drawn rubbish on them of their football team's crest or Spiderman or a flower on their calf or a scorpion just above the crack of their ass. Nothing looks cool, nothing looks unique, and the cool stories about what they represent have been replaced by "it's just cool looking, ay it." Moreover, the people that have them watch Britain's Got Talent or X-Factor over their Dominos delivery, holiday in Tenerife, listen to One Direction. They're not unique, special or interesting people, and they've all gotten themselves tattooed.
It might just be my experience of 20-35 year old Britons in shitty West Midlands suburbs, but I pine for the days that tattoos seemed to be the preserve of the genuinely cool people, and I nearly reconsidered getting mine done because I didn't want other people lumping me in with that other crowd. But then, I realized that would be losing sight of why I wanted mine done in the first place - to BE individual, and to make my own statement with what MY ink means to ME. To decide against getting it because of the actions of other people would make me no less lame than all the people jumping on it because tattoos are "in" and "mainstream" and not because they've got anything powerful or significant that they want on their body for the rest of their lives. It's for me to choose to have or not, regardless of what anyone else does, says or thinks.