Is a man gay if he rejects my BJ offer???

[Ashli Orion]

Tonight I was with a guy I commonly fuck. We were laying in his bed, he had mentioned he was a bit tired. I started talking dirty in a sexy voice telling him, "I know you're tired babe, you don't have to do anything... I'm just so turned on I want to wrap my lips around your cock..."
...it didn't sound corny when I said it, I swear, LOL. I was laying next to him petting his cock outside of his pants with one hand and gently scratching his back with the other...

"NO. I'm tired."


Mind you, I haven't had sex in over 72 hours. I'm dying for cock. I just showered, my pussy is nice and clean, and I know I know how to suck dick. I've won men over with my dick sucking (it might not look the best on camera, but I can get a guy to cum in less than a minute if I really want, I swear!) He doesn't even have to get it hard, I just want to lick it because I'm a pervert.

This is not the first time I've been rejected by him. He says it's because he's not as horny as me. I don't know? :dunno:

I've never been rejected by any one else. It kind of hurts me and makes me question my sexual prowess.

Do you think he's actually "tired" :helpme: and not a "horny" guy. Gay? Not attracted to me?


I need your oppinions!! What would you do if you were me? Is it OK for me to rape a man??? Am I allowed to suck his cock even if he's telling me no??? Bleh.

 

[Ace Boobtoucher]

He's probably just tired. At least you're not asking for twelve grand to pay for a sex therapist.

 

[Supafly]

It happens, with guys as much as with girls, I would say.

Sometimes we just don't feel like having sex, as strange as this may sound. The idea that guys are always horny is just a myth.

Don't take it personal.

Enjoy sex next time, when he is feeling like sex. There will be that glint in his eyes that will tell you when that is :thumbsup:

 

[PrimeGuy]

He's tired. Wanna come suck my dick instead?

 

[Gordar]

1. He's tired (& probably has to wake up early in the next morning to do other things)

2. Sex isn't everything. If you've been with the guy for some time & the only thing he has ever been attracted to is your body/the only thing you've ever offered him is your body, the relationship is doomed to fail. The sex will become a routine & isn't really that enjoyable anymore (the body will say yes, but the mind will say "been there, done that").

Ever considered just laying close to him & fall asleep on his shoulder?

Besides, without a picture of you (preferrably nude) I can't say whether he's gay or not.

 

[PirateKing]

He's holding out. Tease......

 

[Shadowslayer77]

Well Ashli Orion to perphrase a not so great thinker Maybe it was one of the seven legitimate times a man dosen't want sex. Its very rare but it happens. May I suggest you take care of yourself and be ready for some most likely about 4:30 in the morning.

 

[Elektra Knight]

Yea, he probably is just tired. however, don't give hime sex soo often and he'll want it more. :2 cents:

 

[PirateKing]

Besides, without a picture of you (preferrably nude) I can't say whether he's gay or not.

What the what?! That's Ashli Orion son!
Just type her name in the search bar.

Anyways maybe he was having that moment of clarity where he was looking to connect on a non-sexual level. That's happened to me many times. We're not horny 24/7. We prefer to cuddle sometimes.
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....what?:dunno:

 

[Gordar]

What the what?! That's Ashli Orion son!
Just type her name in the search bar.

Anyways maybe he was having that moment of clarity where he was looking to connect on a non-sexual level. That's happened to me many times. We're not horny 24/7. We prefer to cuddle sometimes.
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....what?:dunno:

Oops... :o Hadn't even noticed the OCSM status yet...

 

[Rey C.]

I don't know much about the gay lifestyle, but I'm pretty sure it's not something they can turn on and off like a light switch. So if he's hooked up with you before, it's safe to say that he's probably not gay.

People get tired. That's just life. The only thing I can guess is that he really is tired and the more you nag him, the more turned off you're making him. :dunno:

Ask yourself how you'd feel if you were tired and maybe had cramps, and some guy insisted on getting in your pants - and wouldn't take no for an answer. How would that go over? As for your questions on what you're allowed to do, I think you already know the answer to those.

BTW, I had to look up some links to see what you looked like. You're damn sexy! But maybe you need to take it down a notch with this guy. :2 cents:

 

[PirateKing]

Oops... :o Hadn't even noticed the OCSM status yet...

silly goose.:1orglaugh

 

[Ashli Orion]

awwe thanks for the good advice i feel better! <3 <3 <3 you're the best, sexies!! <3 <3

 

[gunslingingbird]

I've had that problem before. It's not that he's not into you, it's just that sometimes guys really are tired and don't wanna have sex. If he had a long day, if he did strenuous work, if he was out in the sun all day, etc. are all reasons why he might not want sex. My girlfriend once got pissed at me because I didn't wanna have sex. She came over and tried to get me to take a shower with her. However, at that point I'd just gotten home from my 5th 14-hour day of rigging (which is very exhausting), and I just wanted to lay in bed and sleep as long as I could before having to go back to work again. Maybe he's going through something similar.

As for him being gay for not wanting head, some guys just aren't into blowjobs. I've had good blowjobs before, but I'm not wild about them. I've had girls who said the same thing you said about your oral abilities about themselves give me head, and I just didn't find it that great. I'd have to try one of yours to give an objective verdict on the matter.

 

[BigSwede]

Just two days ago I saw a clip of Jim Carrey doing stand up where he said men should refuse sex just once and it will freak the hell out of the woman.
And it seems to be true.

 

[jod0565]

He's gayer than a hnadbag full of rainbows!
Not wanting a blowjob from Ashli Orion?!
GAAAAAAAY!

 

[Roald]

Screw beeing tired, he must be gay!!!

 

[Philbert]

Screw beeing tired, he must be gay!!!

Exactly...give it a few weeks and he'll be saying "Fabulous!"and "Girlfriend!"...

 

[sporty_carr]

He might just be trying to keep you interested. He might actually want to have sex but acts like he isn't interested every once in awhile to make you want him more. And if thats the case, he is doing a good job because look how you're thinking about it lol.



....................nah, he's probably just gay......nevermind.

 

[Roald]

...................., he's probably just gay.......

There I fixed it for you!