I'm finally rounding third base, and I need your help!

[horny nikka]

As the title says, I'm finally going to make it to third base with my girlfriend next weekend when she comes over. This is obviously the closest I've ever been with a girl since I'm coming this far for the first time, and I'm glad to have done it with a girl like her.

We've been dating for a bit over 3 months, and we're very comfortable talking about any subject really. We discussed this weekend that we should take our relationship to the next level/base, since she told me she wants to increase the heat during our makeout sessions. So naturally, thinking with my penis instead of my brain, I didn't hesitate to say "yes". Not trying to imply that I'm don't want to go this far yet, I'm just not prepared yet.

I'm a bit paranoid when it comes to pleasing girls, because I have been dumped in the past for not being able to perform to their standards (e.g., one ex-girlfriend said when I kissed her it felt like I was going to eat her face). So it's a natural for me to feel apprehensive about the impending day not having any experience prior.

I did talk to my friends about it, and some of their advice included that I should think of her vagina as a strawberry ice cream cone, and pretend that I'm a 6 year-old child. Needless to say I did buy an ice cream cone that day and tried to imagine my girlfriend's vagina while consuming it, but it wasn't as stimulating as I thought it would be.

So I come to you today as a paranoid, hopeful, desperate virgin whom simply wants to please his woman to fulfill her sexual needs. I will greatly take any advice you guys have to offer, and I thank you in advance for all your help.

IN A NUTSHELL: How can I give my girl good oral sex?

 

[Danglyparts]

why not consolt one of the many OSCMs here? :scream: ladies! :scream:

 

[Roald]

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IN A NUTSHELL: How can I give my girl good oral sex?

All it takes is some peanut butter and a dog!


:anonymous

 

[Alyssa Rose]

Don't bite. :dunno:

 

[gunslingingbird]

Pay close attention to the "man in the pink boat". Don't try to use your tongue like an outboard motor; caress it.

 

[StanScratch]

Start to swear to your god and on your mother's grave that you will love her to the end of time.
Then pray for the end of time to hurry up and arrive.

Oh, yeah, and get Phil Rizzuto to call the play by play! It's freaking awesome!

 

[TheOrangeCat]

All it takes is some peanut butter and a dog!


:anonymous

Oh dear, where's a Mod when you need one? What's the FO Prime Directive again? .... thou shalt not talk about beastly practices.

Tut-tut-tut-tut ..... :nono: Bad oil boy. BAD.

 

[busenbust]

well, make sure u have enough condoms -- and best of luck :hybrid:

 

[TheOrangeCat]

Basic rule of thumb: you gotta hit that clit, but not too soon, and not to hard, and not directly ... at least not until the very end.

What a girl likes between the thighs varies from girl to girl. I've had girls that couldn't stand direct clit action, some that hated kisses on their lips, some that needs that little pounded like it was minute steak.

You've got to - pardon the expression - feel your way around. Try something, see how she reacts, but it's hard to go wrong with a gentle approach - kisses and finger strokes up the inner thighs, and over her pussy lips. Start licking her gently, moving from bottom to top (not that bottom!), inserting your tongue between her lips, just the tip, then the more and more as you move upwards. Take your time, keep heading up towards the treasure.

You'll be able to tell pretty quickly how its working ... moans, pelvic movement, increased wetness. When you get to her clit DON'T attack it. Go around it, gently licking in circles , passing your tongue over the top of it very now and again. The clit wil be rock hard if you are hitting the spots.

Then, go for some indirect pressure, running your tongue from its base upwards over it, then circle round and repeat. Increase the pressure as she increases her reaction to it.

Now's a good time to have a finger or two inside her two - again, go slow, sliding in with the same rhythm as your tongue and when you are deep enough, use a 'come here' motion, sliding in, curling your finger upwards to stroke the upper walls of her pussy, doubling the rhythm of your tongue on her clit.

As she approaches orgasm resist the temptation to rush her by upping the pace or pressure, but a little increase in tempo and vigor won't hurt and will also give you a great indicator of what she likes/needs for oral satisfaction.

Mix it up a bit with the tongue: flickers, licks - some long and deep, others shallow and passing, maybe a few sucks directly over the clit (one girl I was dating exploded at this point).

Just don't rush, don't pressure yourself, have fun and don't be afraid to ask her what she likes.

Good luck!

 

[Automate]

That's some seriously good advice from The Orange Cat. You should heed it, horny nikka.

Somewhat surprised to see that somebody took this question seriously..

 

[TheOrangeCat]

That's some seriously good advice from The Orange Cat. You should heed it, horny nikka.

Somewhat surprised to see that somebody took this question seriously..

Just sharing knowledge bro!!! Someone might find it useful .... maybe Boothy? About time she/he learnt how to lick pussy properly

 

[Boothbabe]

 

[Facetious]

It's not only oral that's important.... don't forget the handy work!

 

[feller469]

listen to her and watch her reactions. You will know what works and what doesn't. And go slow.

Now, let me go back to jerking off to a video of Vanessa Cooper because I am, obviously, an expert on pleasing women.

 

[busenbust]

listen to her and watch her reactions. You will know what works and what doesn't. And go slow.

Now, let me go back to jerking off to a video of Vanessa Cooper because I am, obviously, an expert on pleasing women.

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:nanner:

 

[TheOrangeCat]

Now, let me go back to jerking off to a video of Vanessa Cooper

Very tug worthy!

 

[WeAreMany]

google it, there's a lot of info on how to please your girl... thats what I did with mine!

 

[TheOrangeCat]

google it, there's a lot of info on how to please your girl... thats what I did with mine!

yet another Google app??!!

GoogleCunnilingus .... for your desktop or mobile device

 

[Alyssa Rose]

Basic rule of thumb: you gotta hit that clit, but not too soon, and not to hard, and not directly ... at least not until the very end.

What a girl likes between the thighs varies from girl to girl. I've had girls that couldn't stand direct clit action, some that hated kisses on their lips, some that needs that little pounded like it was minute steak.

You've got to - pardon the expression - feel your way around. Try something, see how she reacts, but it's hard to go wrong with a gentle approach - kisses and finger strokes up the inner thighs, and over her pussy lips. Start licking her gently, moving from bottom to top (not that bottom!), inserting your tongue between her lips, just the tip, then the more and more as you move upwards. Take your time, keep heading up towards the treasure.

You'll be able to tell pretty quickly how its working ... moans, pelvic movement, increased wetness. When you get to her clit DON'T attack it. Go around it, gently licking in circles , passing your tongue over the top of it very now and again. The clit wil be rock hard if you are hitting the spots.

Then, go for some indirect pressure, running your tongue from its base upwards over it, then circle round and repeat. Increase the pressure as she increases her reaction to it.

Now's a good time to have a finger or two inside her two - again, go slow, sliding in with the same rhythm as your tongue and when you are deep enough, use a 'come here' motion, sliding in, curling your finger upwards to stroke the upper walls of her pussy, doubling the rhythm of your tongue on her clit.

As she approaches orgasm resist the temptation to rush her by upping the pace or pressure, but a little increase in tempo and vigor won't hurt and will also give you a great indicator of what she likes/needs for oral satisfaction.

Mix it up a bit with the tongue: flickers, licks - some long and deep, others shallow and passing, maybe a few sucks directly over the clit (one girl I was dating exploded at this point).

Just don't rush, don't pressure yourself, have fun and don't be afraid to ask her what she likes.

Good luck!

At first this started to turn me on.. Then I pictured a cat doing it and it quickly went away.. :tongue:

Regardless, this is golden advice my friend. :clap:

 

[TheOrangeCat]

this is golden advice my friend. :clap:

ithankyou!

although this

Then I pictured a cat doing it and it quickly went away.. :tongue:

hurts my feelings .. my tiny heart, so full of love, is breaking :weeping: