If your Girlfriend had an Affair with a guy that has HUGE dick..

[DOA82]

and he is known to be a stud.... would you be less likely to forgive her, compared to if she slept with guy with a very small penis? (All other factors being equal). Be honest

Cheating is cheating, don't use something as trivial as the guys manhood to justify the outcome of your decision afterwards.

One curiosity though, how are you going to find out the size of the gents member? You aren't going to pause mid arguement to ask how well endowed he was.

 

[zdenka]

You aren't going to pause mid arguement to ask how well endowed he was.

Good question. I guess I'm basing it on a 'what-if' scenario. 'What if' you knew for certain he was HUNG. I mean it could be from an accidental glance at a nudist beach.. or he's an ex-pornstar. that kind of knowledge.

 

[Petra]

Srsly...what kind of question is this?

"Honey, I've discovered you've been cheating on me."

"I'm sorry baby. His dick is so big compared to yours though. I had to try it."

"Oh? His dick was like a 2 litre bottle of Pepsi? I guess I can forgive you. Girls will be girls. I love you."

"I love you too."

If she can handle a dick the size of a 2 litre bottle of Pepsi, I'd say you had bigger fish to fry ...

I mourn the fact I can't give you two a whopping 10 reputation. This so calls for it.

 

[LaLiLuLeLohan]

Yea, I know the feeling.. it's like getting turned on by something Taboo. I'd probably jerk off thinking about my GF getting off on a HUGE dong, and worry about the consequences later LOL So, did she tell at any time, tell you how great the sex was with the Big dick dude? It must have been hot hearing it from her

Yeah man, it's hot as fuck seeing her and hearing her...I get to enjoy that in a whole new way. She never expressly mentioned his dick or how big it was, but she clearly enjoyed herself and, afterwards, she had no problem telling me that it was a fun night. She knows that I want her to have an awesome time so she has no problem admitting that she got off or felt great from it. We've done this 5 different times since we got into it over the last two years (only once with this guy though) and it's been a positive experience for both of us each time.

 

[xfire]

OP must have a tiny micro-cock. I wouldn't care if the guy my significant other cheated with were hung like Mickey Mouse. You break it you buy it. I hope he enjoys his new toy.

 

[CherylFan]

I think it depends whether I wanted to forgive her and stay together, or end it. Did you ask her how it felt for her, being taken by another guy whilst you watched?

 

[zdenka]

I think it depends whether I wanted to forgive her and stay together, or end it. Did you ask her how it felt for her, being taken by another guy whilst you watched?

If she wants my forgiveness, I tell her she must come 100% clean, and reveal every single detail. such as how she felt, how long the sex lasted, how many times she fucked him, etc. Only with complete honesty, can we move on

 

[LukeEl]

Is this thread more about this "cuckholding" I have heard so much about?

 

[DOA82]

Good question. I guess I'm basing it on a 'what-if' scenario. 'What if' you knew for certain he was HUNG. I mean it could be from an accidental glance at a nudist beach.. or he's an ex-pornstar. that kind of knowledge.

That makes even less sense.

Even if I did partake in a nudist beach, I'm not gonna spend the time checking out whose got the largest member on the sand. Nor would I know enough male pornstars by name to know if he's packing some serious loin sausage.

Frankly, if my girl did cheat on me, why the hell would I care who it was specifically with. You seem to laying to much emphasis on who rather than the simple fact that your woman would have cheated. The in, outs, dimensions and personal traits of the guy mean fuck all in that scenario.

A guy hears "I cheated" not "I cheated with a retired millionaire who drives a porsche and has a giant cock, you two would get on so well if it weren't for me fucking him behind your back!"

 

[CherylFan]

Lol! That`s what I thought too. And if she did anything with him which she hadn`t with you, then she`d have to do that right there and then. Only better, for longer, and more intensely.

 

[24 Grams]

Basically I wanted to see her fuck another guy and she was up for it.....If she actually cheated on me and fucked somebody behind my back, it'd be nearly impossible to get beyond it and trust her again...but if I knew the guy was super well hung on top of it, I'm sure that'd sting even more.

Wait a minute. You think it's ok to watch your girlfriend fuck another guy, but if she cheats on you it's a big no-no? How bout if she filmed it? WEIRD.

Anyway, it's amazing though. The both of you...women don't give a "cock's balls" how big a guy's dick is. Name me ONE decent looking woman bang a guy specifically because he had a big dick. Just very strange men seem to think this way.

She never expressly mentioned his dick or how big it was...

Exactly, my point proven.

OP must have a tiny micro-cock.

Probably, either that or he is sexually incompetent...or worse, BOTH!

 

[zdenka]

Probably, either that or he is sexually incompetent...or worse, BOTH!

I'm Microsoft

 

[LaLiLuLeLohan]

Wait a minute. You think it's ok to watch your girlfriend fuck another guy, but if she cheats on you it's a big no-no? How bout if she filmed it? WEIRD.

Cheating would mean she's doing it behind my back, intentionally hiding something from me and disregarding my feelings about it. Or it'd mean that she lacks self-control. It also means a likelihood of it being more than just some physical thing. I completely understand where you're coming from and definitely understand why you'd find it weird (hell, the subject used to be beyond weird to me)but my attitude towards cheating is more about the psychology of it than the physicality of it.

Anyway, it's amazing though. The both of you...women don't give a "cock's balls" how big a guy's dick is. Name me ONE decent looking woman bang a guy specifically because he had a big dick. Just very strange men seem to think this way.



Exactly, my point proven.

Huh? I said it was silly...I admitted it wasn't a logical thing. It's not healthy or productive for some people to second guess themselves about all kinds of things, but I understand it's still part of human nature for many.

 

[tunsty]

Cheating is cheating. While the sexual component is a factor, the emotional component is a bigger one.

ditto..

I mean :dito:


any partner of mine who cheated would NOT get a second chance, no matter how much grovelling and apologising they did.
It's just like a kick in the nuts..

 

[Roald]

...... because men always seem obsessed with 'does size matter'

Bull shit, just the insecure ones :2 cents:

 

[grower_boy]

I say that if she's open about it and it's a cuckolding thing, then I'm fine with it. But if she were to cheat on me behind my back and let me discover it on my own, I don't think I would be able to handle that.

 

[Thomas O'Malley]

I'd never forgive her, no matter what size the guys dick is. Even it had the size of maleonetwo's dick, I wouldn't forgive her. We have agreements and cheating on each other is one of these things that is never allowed. Same goes for telling lies to each other. We agreed watching is ok, even a little seduction is allowed, but no kissing and certainly no screwing around. And that works perfectly for the both of us.

 

[Hypergalaxy]

Pics or

 

[Lucky777Luciano]

If it's true behind your back cheating, it shouldn't matter if it was a snail's dick, or a donkey's python.

She's a liar, totally non-trustworthy, & certainly not worth commiting your life too.

NOW THEN- if it's swinging, group sex, or cuckolding that's being contemplated, you gotta play the scenario out in your most vivid of imaginations- & see if you could handle that kind of thing after play time is long over.

May I suggest trying out some fun with her, using an EXTREMELY large toy on herself?

Have her smash up that wet hole very aggressively, giving her deepest openings a total no-mercy workover, with the absolute biggest penetrating toy you can find - both in length & gerth.

Make sure she hammers the hell out of herself with it for a pro-longed period of time, while you watch the carnage unfold.

If this type of playing around makes you insecure in the least, you're in no way cut out to take the next step, of introducing some well hung stud-horse into you & your girl's sexual fun. And of course there's not a damn thing wrong with that; it's certainly not for everyone. Some of us get a hard-on just thinking about it though

 

[Rey C.]

and he is known to be a stud.... would you be less likely to forgive her, compared to if she slept with guy with a very small penis? (All other factors being equal). Be honest

If your Girlfriend had an Affair...

Sorry, but that's the part that will prevent me from forgiving her or getting back together with her. I have more than a few "character issues" (that certain ex's must have made a mental note of, as they can recite them on command). I might forget your birthday or not "be there" emotionally if you're having a bad day, but cheating has never been one of my issues. Cheat on me and it's over... forever. It doesn't matter if it's with John Holmes' clone or with someone who has an enlarged clit passing for a penis. One of my "issues" is trust. And if you prove to me that I can't trust you, I want you out of my life space... NOW!