I don't know if it is appropiate to ask for advise on this board but I'm at the end of my rope here and I desperately need some help. I just started having sex with my gf and I really love her a lot. The problem is when we have sex, although I have no problem giving her a orgasm, I have problems reaching my own. This is really strange considering that I had never had sex before, so you'd think I would have no problems reaching orgasm, but so far it hasn't happened.