I Lasted Forever, Kind of Embarrassing

[SN4P3]

so i was with this girl the other night, and she was sucking me off and giving me a hand job. she was smoking hot and my dick was hard for awhile before she actually started working it over.

i was laying on her bed and she was stroking my cock to finish me off so she would then put her mouth on it to swallow/spit.

she was jerking it and it felt amazing, and i couldn't cum. i always thought this would be cool, but she stroked it a good 20-30 minutes changing hands and using her mouth, it was non stop stimulation and i was only about 75% there from losing it, but i just couldn't get over the edge.

i was really embarrassed and finally had her lay on her back and rubbed one out myself on her tits, but i did some research on askmen.com, it said that if you always masterbate at 100 mph (which i do), then your dick is used to that type of speed, so it's hard for a vagina, mouth, or even her hands to move as fast as what i am accustomed to. the cure? they said don't masterbate for 2 weeks and then masterbate with slower strokes. hopefully it works.

but has this happened to any of you guys before? what did you do to fix it?

 

[Hot Mega]

What were you drinking, Gin?

 

[sproing99]

but has this happened to any of you guys before? what did you do to fix it?

I hit 40

 

[squallumz]

nah, you can be accustomed to a feeling i suppose but nothing serious enough that you can cum if it isnt done that certain way, otherwise none of us would be able to bust during actual sex. if you have any alcohol, it will totally dampen your spirits so to speak. also, thinking about it too much, pressuring yourself to cum will fuck you all up too.

 

[laxe]

Hmm, if what askmen.com said is true, then I guess I need to start jacking off faster, that way I could last longer.

 

[Facial_King]

Maybe you needed to get things close on your own, as she rubs or licks you somewhere else, but as you knew you were reaching the point of no return you should have let her take over to be hands or mouth on when you blew your load...

It's almost always better if you let the woman finish.

 

[shayd]

I say, relax. Stress always has an effect.

 

[robbied196]

Maybe it was her, have you got her name and number? I'm willing to try her out and let you know if I have the same problem :thumbsup:

 

[Red Spyder]

You heard the one about the guy who couldn't cum?
They went and got him... drumroll, please.

Anyway, in that case, why don't just do her, if you're going to last that long I'm sure she won't mind having a hard dick in her for a long time, might give her multiple orgasms.

 

[SonOfSparda]

Thats nothing i've gone a whole hour and still didn't blow... She was pretty poor at it but still stuck to it.

 

[Facetious]

so i was with this girl the other night, and she was sucking me off and giving me a hand job. she was smoking hot and my dick was hard for awhile before she actually started working it over.

i was laying on her bed and she was stroking my cock to finish me off so she would then put her mouth on it to swallow/spit.

she was jerking it and it felt amazing, and i couldn't cum. i always thought this would be cool, but she stroked it a good 20-30 minutes changing hands and using her mouth, it was non stop stimulation and i was only about 75% there from losing it, but i just couldn't get over the edge.

i was really embarrassed and finally had her lay on her back and rubbed one out myself on her tits, but i did some research on askmen.com, it said that if you always masterbate at 100 mph (which i do), then your dick is used to that type of speed, so it's hard for a vagina, mouth, or even her hands to move as fast as what i am accustomed to. the cure? they said don't masterbate for 2 weeks and then masterbate with slower strokes. hopefully it works.

but has this happened to any of you guys before? what did you do to fix it?

Didn't you post a story very similar to this one several months ago ?

Yea you did. And didn't you rescue a co ed walking to her car or restroom from being raped at 3 AM from the coziness of the school library with a silent, out of nowhere, bold dash ?

Is this a put on ? :sighs: :spin: ?

 

[TwatDetective]

I didn't read your post, because you didn't capitalize anything, but I think I gleamed enough information out of the other posts.

What you have is impotence, bro. Unfortunately, it's only going to get worse. It's going to get harder and harder to cum, and eventually hard to even retain an erection.

Bam. Limp Dick.

You have Limp dick, brah. Pretty soon your dick's going to be in lower case.

And nice work saving that coed at 3.A.M. and being such a super stud apparently.


EDIT: Go see a doctor about Viagra. That will keep your dick from dying for a few more years.

 

[Hot Mega]

Based on what I read here, this story isn't about an erection problem but a ejaculation problem in that she couldn't make him ejaculate but he could make himself ejaculate.

After all, the title of the thread is "I Last Forever..."

It seems certain types of alcohol has had that effect on me before...not that I couldn't ejaculate but that I could last almost as long as I wanted to..

Gin is pretty well known for that effect on some people.

Other than that, it's most likely attributed to the combination of him being on his back and her not stroking it the way he may be accustomed to.

 

[TwatDetective]

Another possibility is that you're gay.

Can't cum with a woman, but you can get yourself off.

Do you think of other men when you are with women? Like let's say, Sean Connery?

Being gay would probably explain the distance you've always felt from your peers, wouldn't it?

It's ok. It's nothing to be ashamed about.

 

[Hot Mega]

Another possibility is that you're gay.

Can't cum with a woman, but you can get yourself off.

Do you think of other men when you are with women? Like let's say, Sean Connery?

Being gay would probably explain the distance you've always felt from your peers, wouldn't it?

It's ok. It's nothing to be ashamed about.

LOL...Wow! I could be wrong but I'm thinking the guy knows if he's gay or not by now.:1orglaugh

 

[bodie54]

LOL...Wow! I could be wrong but I'm thinking the guy knows if he's gay or not by now.:1orglaugh

Not necessarily. Denial can be a very strong, tenacious foe. Just look at gunslingingbird. I think T Detective's analysis is most likely correct :hatsoff:

 

[TwatDetective]

Not necessarily. Denial can be a very strong, tenacious foe. Just look at gunslingingbird. I think T Detective's analysis is most likely correct :hatsoff:

...And a second opinion to confirm the diagnosis.

Live life as yourself, original poster.

 

[Hot Mega]

Not necessarily. Denial can be a very strong, tenacious foe. Just look at gunslingingbird. I think T Detective's analysis is most likely correct :hatsoff:

I guess. But how about this, I KNOW I'm not and on occasion it's taken a chick a long time to stroke me off too...My cock was hard as a brick, I was completely turned on by her but my cock just wasn't as sensitive to the stimulation.

There are plenty of porn dudes who pound chicks every which way you can in some porn scenes and still take a long time to stroke themselves off at the end of the scene.

I think suggesting or concluding someone is gay simply because they took a long time to ejaculate or didn't respond to a certain type of stimulation is Olympic long jumper territory (a huge leap).

That's like suggesting a chick is lesbo just because she doesn't orgasm from being fucked by a guy IMO.

 

[Baill Inneraora]

Still better than being a Quick Draw McGraw

 

[Ashleigh]

Wow she kept going for a full half hour with no results? She's a woman to keep around, thats dedication!!! If I don't see results in 10-15 mins from a blow/hand job, I get insanely bored and just hop on to have a bit of fun on my own! Kudos to her.

But seriously though, have you had probs before cumming through blow/hand jobs? Is it just that thats the problem? Is sex ok for you? Because my partner typically can't reach climax through oral sex...he says the stimulation isn't enough to get there and that he requires more friction from a hand/pussy. (and no, its not because I suck at it, he hadn't been able to climax from it from any of his ex's either,and I was actually the first one who could suck him off successfully ...only once though haha)

but yeah....maybe its just a recurrent prob? Maybe keep oral for a foreplay kinda deal and then fuck her brains out .