How to win the heart of a busty girl.

[Adam_Cartwright]

There is this really busty girl at my work with at least DDs that I've really starting liking. And before you say it, yes, I do love big breasts, and yes, when she first started working here, I was in love with her breasts. I'm not going to lie or hide that fact.

But now that I've really gotten to know her, I find out she is so kind and funny, and her personality is so unique.

And she is the type of girl that knows what she has been gifted with. She isn’t slutty about it by any means. She does like to flaunt a little, but it’s nothing indecent. She always knows I'm not the first guy to ever talk to her or be friendly to her.

I would just like some advice from people, men or women, who might have some experience on this subject. I want to let her know I like her, but not because she has big breasts. I'm sure that's an almost near-impossible task to accomplish, because I'm sure she will always have her suspicions, but I'm willing to try because I like her very much.

 

[Legzman]

Good place to start...just talk to her bro! Get to know her a little, flirt a little, but not to much! Most important, be yourself! I'm sure you'll figure out where it will go shortly!

 

[ckjedi66]

Exactly, just talk to her, get to know her, ask her to go to lunch one day, and DO NOT try to hard to impress her, women can see right through that, be yourself and if she likes you the signs will be there, but for starters, take it slow and just talk to her.

 

[SabrinaDeep]

Don't think that just because she has big boobies she is tired of being aknowledged for that. Figure out if she is happy with her big breasts, and if she is she will love to get compliments about it. Buy her a bunch of roses and ask her out without masking your shyness and let her laugh, laugh and laugh again ;-)

This actually would work with me...i don't know her...but it might work as well

 

[meesterperfect]

Yeah I hope you get what you want AC, Just curious why you posted "How to win the heart of a busty girl. and not just a girl.
Not sure, but it did get my attention

 

[Legzman]

Maybe also try and not focus so much on her breasts

 

[calpoon]

Yeah, just do what you'd do normally, and if you don't do anything normally, than do the opposite.:thumbsup:

If she thinks that you just like her because of her boobs, then she probably won't go for that. I don't want to use the word slutty... but most girls that like the attention that they get for their breasts are the type that they would act the same way (IE: dress provocatively, act flirtatious, etc.) even if they were completely flat chested. I'd say the majority of women are probably pretty self conscious about it and are sick of being reduced to a pair of boobs that just so happens to have a woman attached to them, in the eyes of men.

 

[georges]

If she is a sweetheart, just invite her in a good restaurant at a diner at the candles. Invite her to watch a movie to the theatre as well. Best of luck to you.

 

[Rubber Soul]

Food and beer.

 

[McRocket]

I would try to stop thinking about her boobs. Because that seems to be getting you nowhere.
And if you type back that you 'can't'.
Then I type back, 'Well, you better.' Because a relationship with this woman would mean 99.9% more then just her boobs. Or it better or you are one VERY superficial guy at this time in your life.

So my advice?

Stop thinking of her as a female with big boobs and start thinking of her as a female you like who happens to have big boobs.

 

[McRocket]

I would try to stop thinking about her boobs. Because that seems to be getting you nowhere.
And if you type back that you 'can't'.
Then I type back, 'Well, you better.' Because a relationship with this woman will almost surely mean 99.9% more then just her boobs. Or it better or you are one VERY superficial guy at this time in your life.

So just stop thinking of her as a female with big boobs and start thinking of her as a female you like who happens to have big boobs.

And (like others typed) just talk to her.

 

[BigSwede]

Always talk to her face,not to her boobs.
I don´t think busty women are different than anyone else.

 

[rebeccalover707]

Well, it's like everyone else pointed out: you should really focus on her personality and character and not her boobs. Get to know the real girl and not dwell on her physical features. My first girlfriend had large breasts - about 36 DD, I believe - but I didn't date her for that; I dated her because she was a nice person and had a great heart, and even though it didn't work out, we are still good friends to this day (we always talk to each other about things good friends usually discuss).

So, look for the girl behind the breasts and get to know her; let her know about your feelings for her (not the perverted ones, mind you), and treat her with utmost respect.

 

[O85]

My current girlfriend has G cup, brown hair, blue eyes, about 5ft tall and she is such a sweetheart. Seems to be kinda similar to your situation, she is not slutty but does like to show her assets off from time to time. If you know she likes you , treat her like shes the only babe in the world, dont just focus on her breasts, pay compliments to her and flirt a lil and youll be getting laid soon!

 

[Torre82]

Yeah I hope you get what you want AC, Just curious why you posted "How to win the heart of a busty girl. and not just a girl.
Not sure, but it did get my attention

My thoughts as well. As if a topheavy chick has a totally different set of rules. :scoff: Sometimes a question is worded badly. Sometimes a question is worded awfully. Oh, and then.. there are questions that make you wonder if the parents and teachers were skimping on the common sense when that human was made.

My current girlfriend has G cup, brown hair, blue eyes, about 5ft tall and she is such a sweetheart. Seems to be kinda similar to your situation, she is not slutty but does like to show her assets off from time to time. If you know she likes you , treat her like shes the only babe in the world, dont just focus on her breasts, pay compliments to her and flirt a lil and youll be getting laid soon!

A G cup, eh.. my first impulse is to ask if there are pics. I mean, if you said D/E/F or equivalent cup.. not such a strong urge. But G? Those things could crush a man. Well.. admittedly not so much. A small child for sure.. and watch your pets around those things. People have tried to cross those things in 80 days. There's a book about it.

If you put area code GGG before a phone number you'll reach one of a thousand different numbers in her breast's general area. "We're sorry, this number is not in service. Damn those are huge titters. Thank you for using AT&T"

People often get stranded because they didnt trek across her breasts with a full tank of gas and some backup containers. Cell coverage is pretty limited until you reach the nipple. There's a cell tower there. Especially when it's cold.

 

[Member2019]

Remember her personality, as well as all of her figure ...

There is this really busty girl at my work with at least DDs that I've really starting liking. And before you say it, yes, I do love big breasts, and yes, when she first started working here, I was in love with her breasts. I'm not going to lie or hide that fact.

What works for me is that I don't just go for breasts, they are often just a "bonus" of her figure.
Most voluptuous women tend to have hourglass figures, others more apple (especially shorter).

The irony is that, when prompted (like, "why do you find me attractive?"), merely pointing out her figure as a hourglass (or apple/apple-hourglass if appropriate), talking about how her hips and mid-section curve well, is less "shallow" than just talking about her bust.
In reality, I find it not only impressed them deeply, not only flatters them in a way that they rarely hear, but actually turns them on because they've never felt so sexy before.
Imagine you are her and 99% of the complements you get are either about your breasts, or worse yet, patronizing complements that they aren't her only asset, that she has a cute face, etc... -- very typical and cliche in most cases.

But do not go there until prompted -- like when she says "well, all I've got are my breasts" or "what do you like about me?"

But now that I've really gotten to know her, I find out she is so kind and funny, and her personality is so unique.

Sounds like a winner!

And she is the type of girl that knows what she has been gifted with. She isn’t slutty about it by any means. She does like to flaunt a little, but it’s nothing indecent. She always knows I'm not the first guy to ever talk to her or be friendly to her.

Excellent! It's great to have a love that "sports" but doesn't "share" except with her love.

I would just like some advice from people, men or women, who might have some experience on this subject. I want to let her know I like her, but not because she has big breasts. I'm sure that's an almost near-impossible task to accomplish, because I'm sure she will always have her suspicions, but I'm willing to try because I like her very much.

Honestly, the "figure" discuss is a good "deflection."
And in the end, maybe just maybe, you'll find it turns you on more than her breasts, which just become a "bonus."
If you're looking for material, read the Wikipedia page Female Body Shape:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_body_shape

It's an entry I've added a significant amount of content to, especially the analytical aspects (it was too much "opinion" before).
I'm currently arguing to keep it alive because it's a combination of analysis and art that is not covered medically -- especially not as a whole.

 

[KittyKat]

As a busty gal myself, I have to say we are no different from normal girls. If a man talks to me I don't immediately think "He's talking to me because of my breasts". The boobs are part of the whole! lol Unless you constantly stare at her breasts or talk to her chest, I'm sure she won't think any thing amiss!

 

[member006]

As a busty gal myself, I have to say we are no different from normal girls. If a man talks to me I don't immediately think "He's talking to me because of my breasts". The boobs are part of the whole! lol Unless you constantly stare at her breasts or talk to her chest, I'm sure she won't think any thing amiss!

My thoughts are the same as KittyKats. Although there are those that when talking to you make you want to "snap" your fingers and say "Hello up here."

LL

 

[meesterperfect]

I don't think our buddy Adam ever returned to see all of our great advice for him.
Well a least now I know how to win the heart of a BUSTY girl

 

[Christmas_Ape]

I don't think our buddy Adam ever returned to see all of our great advice for him.
Well a least now I know how to win the heart of a BUSTY girl

If I know Adam, he's probably face down in between two hefty meat bags, thinking to himself, "Hmm, that don't feel like sand bags after."