All you players here, what is your normal SOP to achieve great sucess with a woman who you would really like to do naughty stuff to? do you look straight into her deep set eyes and ask her something general , do you say something philospohical which has the potential of making her wonder what you're talking about or do you talk to someone with her which could mean you are not interested in her... sometimes its difficult to tell what exactly different women are looking for when you cant find a refernce to start a conversation ... im looking for that one style which fits all.