1. Pathetic. My first girlfriend and I did oral both ways and shared lots of orgasms but I neither found her attractive or liked her enough on a personal level to bother with going all the way. The girl I lost my V plates to, I went out with for four years, lived together, talked about marriage and everything. She helped me get over a lot of my hang ups... which all came back with a load of new ones when I found out she was cheating on me.
I took the plunge into paying for it a year later and remain a broken, crushed man, dimly aware that he has nothing to offer most women, doomed to die unfulfilled in terms of companionship. But at least periodically I can pay a hot girl to sit on my face.