How many guys had your gf's slept with before you met?
- Thread starter JulianNorth
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All of them, I think.
I just laughed for about 5 minutes when I read this great stuff nuetron!:thumbsup::rofl:
My girlfriends now 23 and has slept with 13 guys since doing porn (about 45 all together).
It's weird because since she's been doing porn I've met boyfriends/husbands of other pornstars and they really are quite a lot of guys that don't mind their girls fucking other guys. The thing most of us have in common is that we would be really mad if anything happened behind our backs. So I guess it's all a trust thing.
Watching her do an a2m with another dude on set still gets me hard and she's been shooting for almost a year now.
Jay
It's weird because since she's been doing porn I've met boyfriends/husbands of other pornstars and they really are quite a lot of guys that don't mind their girls fucking other guys. The thing most of us have in common is that we would be really mad if anything happened behind our backs. So I guess it's all a trust thing.
Watching her do an a2m with another dude on set still gets me hard and she's been shooting for almost a year now.
Jay
The point of the thread is understanding how other people feel about this issue. Some guys literally cant sustain a relationship with a girl if they find out shes slept around in the past while other guys might get turned on by it. I just think it's interesting.
Jay
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GregCentauro
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Just for the record, my girls number now stands at around 50, but this will remain the same for some time now as shes taking a break from shooting porn. I think even she has started to realise that 50 guys before you're 24 is a little too high, lol.
I could go into a great big monologue but I'll try to keep it short.
To me knowing how many she slept with tells me what kind of girl I'm dealing with. She tells me she slept with only 4 guys. OK why? She's picky with the guy she dates? They were all long term relationships? Or, she lost her virginity 6 months ago and she's gaining experience. She tells me she slept with 14 guys. Again why? She's had her wild time and is finally looking to settle down? She's still going and wants to reach a number before settling down? She's just easy and gives it up to any guy?
Knowing her lets me know where I stand so that I don't get fooled. The last thing anyone wants is to be played for a fool. Male or female. You kind of have your 1st answer then you ask the others.
OK she's slept with 4 guys. Now, why only 4 and how long ago was her last relationship. Is she ready for someone else or is she still heartbroken and I'm the revenge fuck?
Another scenario. You find out that this chick has been around a lot. OK, fine. Why did you sleep with so many. Have you finished soiling your wild oats? Are you still in that phase? You are, cool, then just a fuck it is. You're done with that phase. Great, lets get to know each other.
That's why I want to know. I know where I stand. I don't waste my time and more importantly. I don't get played for a fool.
I have taken that approach when I was single because I've learned my lesson. I was casually seeing a girl for 2 weeks. She was cool and got along really well with her. She showed me signs that she was interested and I showed her that I was. Then we went out clubbing with her and her friends and me with mine. We were having a good time and then I was on the dance floor and then I see her dancing with another guy. I started thinking WTF after the 2nd song. I asked her if she knew the guy and she said no I just danced a couple of songs and that's it. I let it go.
Days later she calls me back and we start talking. She then mentions to me that she went on a date with him. I said really, how was it. She said that the date went well and that she slept with him but he was awful in bed. She wasn't going to see him anymore. I said wow that's too bad. The very next sentence she asks me what I was doing Friday night because she wants us to spend the night together. I told her you know what, I'm not going to be someone's sloppy 2nds and hung up on her. From then on, I decided to know the girl better BEFORE falling for one and being played for a fool. Had I known this before, I would've known what kind of girl she was. I would've changed what my goal with her was.
Sorry, I tried to keep it short
To me knowing how many she slept with tells me what kind of girl I'm dealing with. She tells me she slept with only 4 guys. OK why? She's picky with the guy she dates? They were all long term relationships? Or, she lost her virginity 6 months ago and she's gaining experience. She tells me she slept with 14 guys. Again why? She's had her wild time and is finally looking to settle down? She's still going and wants to reach a number before settling down? She's just easy and gives it up to any guy?
Knowing her lets me know where I stand so that I don't get fooled. The last thing anyone wants is to be played for a fool. Male or female. You kind of have your 1st answer then you ask the others.
OK she's slept with 4 guys. Now, why only 4 and how long ago was her last relationship. Is she ready for someone else or is she still heartbroken and I'm the revenge fuck?
Another scenario. You find out that this chick has been around a lot. OK, fine. Why did you sleep with so many. Have you finished soiling your wild oats? Are you still in that phase? You are, cool, then just a fuck it is. You're done with that phase. Great, lets get to know each other.
That's why I want to know. I know where I stand. I don't waste my time and more importantly. I don't get played for a fool.
I have taken that approach when I was single because I've learned my lesson. I was casually seeing a girl for 2 weeks. She was cool and got along really well with her. She showed me signs that she was interested and I showed her that I was. Then we went out clubbing with her and her friends and me with mine. We were having a good time and then I was on the dance floor and then I see her dancing with another guy. I started thinking WTF after the 2nd song. I asked her if she knew the guy and she said no I just danced a couple of songs and that's it. I let it go.
Days later she calls me back and we start talking. She then mentions to me that she went on a date with him. I said really, how was it. She said that the date went well and that she slept with him but he was awful in bed. She wasn't going to see him anymore. I said wow that's too bad. The very next sentence she asks me what I was doing Friday night because she wants us to spend the night together. I told her you know what, I'm not going to be someone's sloppy 2nds and hung up on her. From then on, I decided to know the girl better BEFORE falling for one and being played for a fool. Had I known this before, I would've known what kind of girl she was. I would've changed what my goal with her was.
Sorry, I tried to keep it short
623.
PirateKing
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Six, but I made sure they all met with an unfortunate accident at sea...
"I don't care about your past. I only care about our future" (Keep in mind, this was during the "free love era" of the 60s).
No, those weren't my words.
They were my best-friend's.
The same one I've been married to for donkeys years now...
The only time this topic even came up tangentially was when we were trying to have kids and we both wanted to make sure we were both healthy and disease free.
Otherwise, we've never discussed it. Not because "you never ask" or any such "rules" - it's because neither one of us thought it was important. We'd each had our pasts. You can't change the past, so what's the point? What matters is here/now and tomorrow...
If you love somebody, you accept them - warts and all. As is.
Stop worrying about the past. Be more concerned about the present and future... together
cheers,
old fart
No, those weren't my words.
They were my best-friend's.
The same one I've been married to for donkeys years now...
The only time this topic even came up tangentially was when we were trying to have kids and we both wanted to make sure we were both healthy and disease free.
Otherwise, we've never discussed it. Not because "you never ask" or any such "rules" - it's because neither one of us thought it was important. We'd each had our pasts. You can't change the past, so what's the point? What matters is here/now and tomorrow...
If you love somebody, you accept them - warts and all. As is.
Stop worrying about the past. Be more concerned about the present and future... together
cheers,
old fart
CherylFan
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IMHO it doesn`t matter whether it`s one or ten or a hundred. My o/h was married and sometimes I find it a turn-on that she was, and whilst I`m very interested to know what she did on her wedding night etc I would never ask, as it`s kind of private to part of her life which didn`t and doesn`t involve me. What matters is what is happening now and in the future. So whilst I know that she`d been fucked by however many people and had their cum squirted into her and over her tits and had sucked them off and whatever, it doesn`t matter at all, because what matters is our relationship and how I can please her and how she can please me and how we can be happy together.
You stole their sea sickness medication?
How did you get them all on the same boat? :dunno:
