Have You Got Kids?
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Kids, whew, theres something I don't want to think about. Maybe when i get a little older I'll take more serious consideration about kids.
americanharley said:
Yeah I never actually planned to have a kid (sounds a bit awful
). She just came along with the stalk lol , but I don't regret/or want to change any part about that! Some people think your "free-time-days" go when you have a kid(s), but it don't I still get up to all the things I used too :hatsoff:
I don't have any kids, but I really wish sometime I will, just because I have a niece who is my eyes and soul, I haven't seen her for a while... now she's 7 yo, and I miss her a lot, I'm feeling proud to realize by phone conversations that many of the things I taught her still remain, and someday I wish I can teach a kid of my own the way I see things and show him/her the world as the really beautiful place I have experienced in my life despite the bad things.
After all... your kids are all that will remain from you later... so... try to give them the best!!! and definitely build a better world for them that you have now!
Cheers! :glugglug:
After all... your kids are all that will remain from you later... so... try to give them the best!!! and definitely build a better world for them that you have now!
Cheers! :glugglug:
********** said:
Man... I simply don't understand...
1. you like living in the US but you don't want to raise your child in the US? Now is that a contradiction or what? (even with that little explanation sentence it deserves some thinking)
2. You say the love of your life has three kids already (please excuse my rude question), but are them your children? I ask it because you seem to be upset by something, and believe me, kids not the ones to blame.
3. "There are too many in the world already"... Ok... do you want to condemn your offspring to nonexistence because of your own prejudices that some other's children are the ones who will remain in here after you pass out? that's named competitive advantage... have you ever heard the term "competitive advantage"?
I have a 6 month old girl, she means everything to me. She's what makes me want to change the world so she can grow up with everything she wants.
She gives me purpose and is my inspiration.
I call it a cop-out. It's hard work just to have a kid, but it's life's purpose to propagate. It's our responsibility as adults to make our world a better place for our children. Why do you think I'm against violence? I don't want my daughter to grow up seeing as much as I did. And I want to raise her so that when she has my grandchildren she will have lived a better life than me, and will have done more to make the world a better place.
She gives me purpose and is my inspiration.
********** said:
I call it a cop-out. It's hard work just to have a kid, but it's life's purpose to propagate. It's our responsibility as adults to make our world a better place for our children. Why do you think I'm against violence? I don't want my daughter to grow up seeing as much as I did. And I want to raise her so that when she has my grandchildren she will have lived a better life than me, and will have done more to make the world a better place.
********** said:
mean? hostile? *laugh* no way man! I'm just trying to have some conversation here, since I've been away from the freeones board for some time! but if you want action you have to give action... don't you agree?
Anyway, if you want to answers the "questions" go ahead, or not, you know... whatever
cheers again!
x4g63x said:
I've got kids, but for once I'm gonna defend **********. That's not a cop out, that's a wonderful decision if that's how he feels. The absolute worst thing in the world is for people to have children that don't really really want them. We've got enough parents who don't want to be parents, cause you're right, it's tough to be a parent. My immature ass struggles with it, and you just try to do the best you can every day.
Cudo's to you fox, for making the responsible decision.
********** said:
Mr. Fox, you're right that a lot of our children are materialistic, but that has nothing to do with capitalism. Yes I'll continue this debate anywhere.
It has to do with parenting. Same thing with kids respecting their parents. I'm a huge fan of capitalism, yet I respected my parents even as a teenager. High school is about cliques, yet so is a lot of life. I hated high school more than you can imagine. I was on the outside of EVERY clique. Yet I learned a ton, not only in class, but also by the sheer fact that I was marginalized. Maybe I'm odd, but it taught me how to be emotionally self sufficient, and it taught me how to not have to depend on others approval. Capitalism aint the problem, it's parents that believe their kids self esteem is more important then teaching them discipline.
maxell said:Don't worry people I don't want to know the whole of your personal life, I was just wondering if any other board members have any kids!
I have a daughter 13 years of age called Petra
And having kids is hard work at times lol
So is anyone else on this board a father or mother?
Hi There.
Im a single divored father and my 9 yo daughter lives with me, my 6 yo son lives with the ex wife, its a long story.
Its very hard going, but I will always be there for my kids !
Cheers
SG
