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[darthbatman]

Alright so I've been with my girlyfriend for two and a half years.
we're in love and everything's totally good, but...

I want so badly just to cum inside her but she
doesn't want me to. even though she's on the pill.
which i can totally respect because she doesn't want to get preggers! neither of us want that right now.
but because i am a perverted piece of shit i always think about how hot it would be to just do it anyway and the thought of this makes me cum almost immediately.. so then i immediately have to yank out and jizz all over her stomach or back. so for the last couple weeks it's been like that, i'm unable to last very long anymore because of this.. any advice lol?
there's not like.. i dunno, some way i could creampie her without knowing, lol?
:1orglaugh

oh yeah also, ladies.. and i guess gents too.. another question is
how might i go about nudging her toward anal?
she says no way but i honestly feel like she might like it if she tried it,
she's got the right kind of sense of humor for it
So i guess what I'm asking the ladies is, how did you get your start learning to appreciate anal (if applicable)? Was it fingers or a but plug or what..?

And yet another thing: I'm considering purchasing and utilizing this penis pump even though she is okay with my current size. I just feel like not only would it boost my confidence, it may also increase my stamina and overall penis health if i do the pumping plus some pc exercises, etc. Also I think it might get her to have orgasms more, i've only ever given her like.. five tops, in two years.. which makes me sad but i dont think shes very well in touch with that whole experience because she never masturbated before. So uh... so what do you guys think? should i do it?

damn i'm unloading a lot of information here. also this is my first post. nice meeting all of you.:hatsoff:

 

[ImASlut69]

ok well the first question - the pill can be tricky , you have to take it exactly right for it to work, have you get on the shot ( im on it) it last for 3 months and its great. Just explain that you really want to do it that the chance of her gettin preg is less then 1% .

second question - anal is fucking awsome!!! I guess just ask her to try it,make sure YOU know how to do it or else you will suck at it and she wont like it. make it like a game, trying each others fantasies .

third question- you could try a penis pump i guess, the only thing that does is make you better, nothing else. BY the sounds of it she isnt very sexually expereniced so you prolly never gave her a orgasm ( she prolly just faked) , she needs to spend time masturbating and getting more comfy with sex or none of the above will help.

Good Luck

 

[Baill Inneraora]

Some woman just dont get off much with the actual act. With those, you need to concentrate on the prep work. If you get them off before the act, they are way more likley to get off during the act.

 

[Jagger69]

So you are not using a condom but she is on the pill and she won't let you cum in her because she doesn't want to get pregnant? She's already assumed that full risk under the circumstances since you are regularly filling her vagina with sperm cells each time you fuck her. Pulling out at the last minute and blowing the majority of your load on her stomach or wherever is not reducing her risk of getting pregnant.

 

[maildude]

Don't push it. She's on the BCP AND insisting on coitus interruptus. The next thing may be a chastity belt.

 

[dick van cock]

Get her real drunk. She won't neither notice nor care what you'll do then.

 

[Sicario]

Very good advice ImASlut69.

Darth, your GF sounds a little immature. This is not an insult, but she needs to further educate herself on birth control. I don't know what to say regarding your wanting to ejaculate inside of her without the use of condoms...:dunno:

Regarding anal sex, you'll have to ease your way into that one and take it slow. Some women enjoy anal sex while others don't, it depends on the individual. A lot of foreplay is required.

Instead of getting a penis pump :spump:, you should buy the Kama Sutra book and read up on how to stimulate and satisfy your partner. I think the both of you can use a little more knowledge.

:2 cents:

 

[ImASlut69]

"third question- you could try a penis pump i guess, the only thing that does is make you better, nothing else. "

I ment to say it will make you bigger, nothing more. sorry lack of sleep....

 

[Darkcowboy]

Funny.... i prefer not to cum inside even if my gf want it often.Different man,different taste.... Goodluck

 

[neighborboy]

If you're having trouble lasting, why not just use a condom? I know they're not popular, but it sounds like your GF is already a little paranoid.

As for anal, start off slow, with just fingers and no penetration, then work your way up from there. I'm not the best person to ask because my GF has been an ass fiend from the start.

 

[senob44]

I wouldn't worry so much about cumming inside your girl as long as she's on the pill. Like jagger said, you're already taking that risk by having sex without a condom.

If you want to give your girl more orgasms, I would say increase your skill and the amount of time you give her oral sex. Once you've given her an orgasm or two that way, she'll be even more ripe when you start to fuck her.

As long as your girl has no problems with your size, don't bother with the penis pump. It might make your dick bigger temporarily, but even with that, who's to say that a bigger cock will automatically give her more pleasure. It doesn't work that way.

Lastly, if you want to have anal so bad, give me a call.

 

[DOA82]

This woman lasted two years with you?

 

[mongo18]

I dunno about the not unleashing inside thing, that'd be a dealbreaker for me. That's kind of the WHOLE POINT of taking the pill at all. I think she's being unreasonable on that one, and I can't think of anything other than begging, pleading and reasoning with her.

As for the anal, if she's already nervous about it, the last thing you should be doing is pumping up, that'll just make her less inclined. I worked through a similar situation with a previous girlfriend, she was dead against it, I wanted it, so anytime she was on top I would just reach around and give her dot a little rub and tickle, plus rimjobs any time you're in the neighbourhood. At first she wouldn't even let me touch it, but I was persistent, and she eventually started to enjoy it. When I gave her her first proper rimming she loved it, and after more than a year I eventually got there. The first few times I had to go real slow, lots of lube and fingering, but after a while she'd go grabbing for the grease with no prompting from me. It can be done.

Good luck.

 

[BlueBalls]

To many questions, not enough answers in my brian.

 

[geece]

she sounds TOO cautious, but never force a girlfriend or wife. I agree with the other brothers above, she needs to get educated regarding birth control. Actually now I'm curious - where do you nut? On her face or mouth? Count your blessings dude!

 

[ImASlut69]

^^ he said in his post he cums on her stomach or back..

 

[member979979]

Isn't it fair to suggest that if a penis pump really did work (hypothetically) speaking, it would cost thousands of dollars?

I love how people today are still convinced that their are things to make your dick bigger.

LMAO...
Cylinder Size Penis Circumference
3" 9-3/4"
3-1/4" 10-1/4"
3-1/2" 11-3/4"
3-3/4" 12-3/4"
4" 13-3/8"

http://cache.jalopnik.com/cars/assets/resources/2007/02/Austin-Powers-Pump.jpg

 

[Peter Gazinya]

You should definitely buy the penis pump, paint a little brown ring around it, and cum in it. Voila! You kill all three birds with one stone.