Dry finger raped by my girlfriend??? Seriously. No joke.

xanaXXX

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So about two weeks ago while me and my girl were having sex... but............!!! while she was giving me head she decides to stick her finger in my ass. I screamed "WTF r u doing!?" She say's " I thought you would like it. Because when I was on your laptop I saw your search history & I saw that you looked up lesbians fingering ass." Then I say "yeah lesbian porn. NOT girls fingering a guy's ass." She say's "Well don't look up lesbian ass porn when you don't want to take it up the ass. Your a hypocrite.". I say "What the hell! Your not making any sense." She say's "Well stop looking at porn you jerk!" Then she put's on her clothes (as I just stare at her) and leaves my apartment without any of us saying a word.

So the next day in the morning she called me & said "I'm sorry about last night. I was just pissed about you looking at porn. I just think your not into me anymore. Cuz u like girls who like anal sex & I don't do that." I say "So that's why you decide to stick your finger up my ass? That's like rape u know. It didn't feel good." She say's "Sorry. Let's forget about this okay. I say "Well I guess. Bye."

So we just didn't talk about it. When we had sex the next time. It was the norm as usual (but awkward as hell. at least there was no ass fingering though). Now everything seems normal again... but seriously guy's (and gals). Was I pretty much raped??? I felt violated (Only that day of course & the day after), but it didn't bother me anymore after that. Funny thing is. The only thing I think about when that happened is if there was some shit on her finger after she (u know), but I ain't asking her.
 
You're gonna feel more violated and dirty after certain members on here read this and comment. You should keep your personal life to yourself on here when it comes to that kind of thing.
 
no, you werent raped. she had no reason to think you wouldnt like it because she was confused. lots of women sneak this on their guys to test the waters so to speak
 
So about two weeks ago while me and my girl were having sex... but............!!! while she was giving me head she decides to stick her finger in my ass. I screamed "WTF r u doing!?" She say's " I thought you would like it. Because when I was on your laptop I saw your search history & I saw that you looked up lesbians fingering ass." Then I say "yeah lesbian porn. NOT girls fingering a guy's ass." She say's "Well don't look up lesbian ass porn when you don't want to take it up the ass. Your a hypocrite.". I say "What the hell! Your not making any sense." She say's "Well stop looking at porn you jerk!" Then she put's on her clothes (as I just stare at her) and leaves my apartment without any of us saying a word.

So the next day in the morning she called me & said "I'm sorry about last night. I was just pissed about you looking at porn. I just think your not into me anymore. Cuz u like girls who like anal sex & I don't do that." I say "So that's why you decide to stick your finger up my ass? That's like rape u know. It didn't feel good." She say's "Sorry. Let's forget about this okay. I say "Well I guess. Bye."

So we just didn't talk about it. When we had sex the next time. It was the norm as usual (but awkward as hell. at least there was no ass fingering though). Now everything seems normal again... but seriously guy's (and gals). Was I pretty much raped??? I felt violated (Only that day of course & the day after), but it didn't bother me anymore after that. Funny thing is. The only thing I think about when that happened is if there was some shit on her finger after she (u know), but I ain't asking her.

She didn't even wash her finger before she left? Gross.
 
you should be mad, she should have spit on her finger first, it feels much better that way. anyway, no, you weren't raped and you shouldn't be bothered by it much. that's part of growing sexually with a partner is trying new things and figuring out what to do and what NOT to do.
 

squallumz

knows petras secret: she farted.
if this is even true, its not that big of a deal. you shouldnt freak out on her. she wanted to make you happy, and thats fucking awesome. embrace her trials, if you smash everything she does, things will get boring and she'll feel bad.

she tried. thats whats great.
 
yeah seriously, be stoked that you got a chick who is willing to do shit like that to please you...even if you don't like it, she's willing to do it and that's something, plenty of prudes out there barely even suck their man's dick, can't have a lasting and exciting sex life without the willingness to please each other selflessly like that
 

bobjustbob

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She got into your laptop? Password protect. Give her her own screen name. You are one dumb fuck.
 

Rane1071

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You should've let her finish blowing ya' before complaining, dude.
Rookie mistake!
 

winterwarz

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If true, she's lying to you, and you know it. It was all planned in advanced to shove her finger up your ass because she felt you were cheating on her by watching porn. Yes, she's that girlfriend, man.
 

Hondarobot

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:rofl:

I was thinking yesterday that there was no way "E-cigarette explodes in Niceville guys face" could be beat as a headline. I was wrong.

"Dry Finger Raped By Girlfriend!"

Now if an electronic cigarette exploded in someones face, while they were being dry finger raped in Niceville, that just might be the most hilarious story ever told. At least a great opening scene.

lol
 

Harley Spencer

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No it's not rape. She stopped when you told her to stop, did she not? It's the same as when a guy tests the waters with his girl. If the girl doesn't like it, he should stop.

If you're already having consensual sex that's not rape, is it? If a girl was into S&M and wasn't sure if you were, and she tied you up or lightly choked you, would you consider that rape? I sure hope not. She'd be testing the waters to see if you're into it. You're overreacting.

I've had guys try anal with me back when I absolutely hated it to the point of me crying. I didn't consider it rape. Except once, when a guy actually did force me to do it and continued to do so after I said no repeatedly. That's rape. Your issue is not rape.

Like others said, it's part of growing sexually with your partner. It's called "Trying New Things."

Don't make your girl look like a bad guy because she stuck her finger in your ass. Get over it.
 

Hondarobot

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No it's not rape. She stopped when you told her to stop, did she not? It's the same as when a guy tests the waters with his girl. If the girl doesn't like it, he should stop.

If you're already having consensual sex that's not rape, is it? If a girl was into S&M and wasn't sure if you were, and she tied you up or lightly choked you, would you consider that rape? I sure hope not. She'd be testing the waters to see if you're into it. You're overreacting.

I've had guys try anal with me back when I absolutely hated it to the point of me crying. I didn't consider it rape. Except once, when a guy actually did force me to do it and continued to do so after I said no repeatedly. That's rape. Your issue is not rape.

Like others said, it's part of growing sexually with your partner. It's called "Trying New Things."

Don't make your girl look like a bad guy because she stuck her finger in your ass. Get over it.

It's the dry, as opposed to wet, aspect that's odd.
 
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