I can't say I feel like that at all. When I watch a girl I like in hardcore, I want to see her interact with a penis with some combination of her hands, mouth, boobs and/or ladypart. I like to see her excite a penis until orgasm. My brain associates with the pleasure the penis is getting from what the girl(s) is(/are) doing to it. Subconsciously I'm sure my brain translates the visuals and releases the endorphins related to if it were my penis experiencing what was happening on the screen. And I like it.
That's not to say I don't also get excited at two beautiful women touching each other, or just a nude or topless lady or even just sexy lingerie or bikini photos. But in terms of I feel about hardcore... yeah, I pretty much love it. There are at least a hundred ladies I've whacked it to in hardcore over the last 20 years or so, and I loved them all.