Let's be honest, if someone has dated multiple people and none of those relationships has worked, probabilities are getting higher and higher for the favor that the problem is in that specific person not in the people they have dated...
I hope she at least managed to call herself a "nice girl" before starting her monologues... That works everytime; "I'm such a funny and nice person, everybody likes me. Fuck I hate all men, men are bastards...". Sorry, but time is money... unless she spreads her legs, there is no point wasting time listening her sob-stories and even if she spreads her legs, she better save those sob-stories for someone else. After such a monologues, I'd prefer to keep things one-night only either way. Also there is no such thing as not wanting sex, it's more of a matter with who they want sex. You are out of luck if they only talk sob-stories to you...
Women aren't supposed to be making your life harder and weak bitches make me feel insecure... I'm not interested in taking care of adult aged babies... If I wanted to listen crying babies... that's why I have that hanging thing between my legs...