Dinner with a porn star

[DP_LOVER]

I saw advertised recently that there has been or there is going to be a documentary on tv where guys who have a massive crush on a pornstar get to go on a dinner date with them and its part of the tv show.

so this got me thinking...

would you go on this show if you knew it was your only chance of getting to meet your favourite pornstar and be able to chat to them about anything. Not like at a convention where you are fighting against 100s of other guys who all want to speak with her. This way you get a god few hours to spend just the two of you. The only downside is that there is a film crew recording the whole thing and this show will be broadcast and then all your friends, family and colleagues will know you have a crush on a pornstar.

would you do it?

 

[wdoall]

No, i wouldnt. How Real of a chat could you have with tv cameras in your face

 

[Patrick_S]

No, i would not. Mostly because i can´t think of anything i would be interested in talking to a pornstar about.

 

[DP_LOVER]

No, i wouldnt. How Real of a chat could you have with tv cameras in your face

true but you would get time before and after the recording, and you never know, if you are interesting enough she might want a secon date

 

[wdoall]

true but you would get time before and after the recording, and you never know, if you are interesting enough she might want a secon date

I still think that everything would be too acted and when you start out that way things can only go down

 

[Chopper3000]

It all depends where the dinner date was going to be.

 

[assari]

Yes if the event is not related to sex. :jester:

New potatoes with spinach sauce and smokes flounder for me, thank you.

 

[gamblor_1987]

Would I have to pay?

 

[Rey C.]

Unfortunately, I could not. Maybe after I retired I could. But for right now, I like having a job. But anytime Christy Canyon wants to grab a bite to eat and just have a chat (without TV cameras being present), I'd be up for it.

 

[redwolf]

I'm not sure watching me nervously push food around a plate while we sit in awkward silence would make compelling television.

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

The only downside is that there is a film crew recording the whole thing and this show will be broadcast and then all your friends, family and colleagues will know you have a crush on a pornstar.

would you do it?

I think the downside is being part of some reality TV spectacle. Regardless of what it concerned I'm not sure I'd want to be involved with something like that.

I don't think the people you know finding out you fancy, on some level anyway, an attractive woman is really something to be overly concerned about nor something that most folks would necessarily be shocked by. Even if her job maybe isn't viewed as socially acceptable by some. If the people you know are going to judge you for that, well, the people you know are probably assholes.

But then I'm weird and a little broken so what the fuck do I know... :dunno:

 

[squallumz]

done it. we had steak once, and we had sushi another time. i used a fake name and held reservations under it. Sabrina Deep was amused at the choice of said name.

 

[Elwood70]

No fucking way. Not just because it'd be a pornstar either, I'd say the same about any famous person. I would never want to be in that situation with a fuckton of cameras in my face, and greedy assholes behind the scenes trying to figure out how to exploit me - and the other person - for as much money as possible.

Plus, it'd be as fake as the day is long. From the initial introduction to the after-dinner cigarette, nothing sincere in any of it. I'd rather interact with them for real.

 

[Rey C.]

If the people you know are going to judge you for that, well, the people you know are probably assholes.

Corporations generally are run by assholes. But if that's where your bread & butter comes from... then while in Rome, you better keep speaking Latin (or Greek).

As for what anybody else thinks of me, I think I proved a long time ago (around the age of 6, so I'm told) that I don't care about that.

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

Corporations generally are run by assholes. But if that's where your bread & butter comes from... then while in Rome, you better keep speaking Latin (or Greek).

I can see some potential issues if you're in a job that lives and dies by the public perception of each of it's employees and caters primarily to a conservative crowd, but I see that being the exception rather than the rule. Otherwise I see the reaction of the corporate assholes being something more akin to...

"You're going to be on television? Plug the company at least five times in your conversation! Oh, and wear this T-shirt with our logo on it."​

 

[Rey C.]

Not even that. Every company I've worked for over the past 10 years has had a morality clause in the contract, as well as a clause which dealt with employees mentioning the company name or wearing the company logo in any sort of press interview.

I don't have any sort of super sensitive position. But going to corporate HR, to make sure I had a job to come back to, before going on a televised date with a porn star or anybody else, is not how I'd want to start negotiations for my contract renewal in a couple of years. A seemingly innocent and humorous (I thought) off-hand comment during a car show interview, by a guy I knew who worked at Ford, cost him his job. Any sort of "fun" that *might* put my income in jeopardy isn't really fun. I'm sure Christy would understand. But dinner at my house would be more fun anyway. :yesyes:

I talk a lot of foolishness here. But this (and in my car) is where I get it out of my system.

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

Not even that. Every company I've worked for over the past 10 years has had a morality clause in the contract, as well as a clause which dealt with employees mentioning the company name or wearing the company logo in any sort of press interview.

I don't have any sort of super sensitive position. But going to corporate HR, to make sure I had a job to come back to, before going on a televised date with a porn star or anybody else, is not how I'd want to start negotiations for my contract renewal in a couple of years. A seemingly innocent and humorous (I thought) off-hand comment during a car show interview, by a guy I knew who worked at Ford, cost him his job. Any sort of "fun" that *might* put my income in jeopardy isn't really fun. I'm sure Christy would understand. But dinner at my house would be more fun anyway. :yesyes:

I talk a lot of foolishness here. But this (and in my car) is where I get it out of my system.

Eh, perhaps I'm just too used to essentially being my own boss and responsible for myself. :dunno:

 

[Rey C.]

Eh, perhaps I'm just too used to essentially being my own boss and responsible for myself. :dunno:

It could be worse. My girl is a school administrator. And the rules of conduct (written and unwritten) she has to follow make me feel like I could run around like a crazy man 24/7. She isn't a teacher, but she's not even allowed to interact with students by way of social media. Wonder how fast they'd fire her if she went on a televised date with say, Ron Jeremy? Nah, they probably wouldn't fire her for that, just laugh at her.

 

[Jack Davenport]

What makes anyone believe that a porn star would know the first thing about food?

 

[Rey C.]

Sooner than later, you two just need to rent a cheap motel room in a neutral site (say Atlanta) and spend a sweaty weekend getting all this out of your systems.

You know I'm right. :yesyes: