Dating/******** with former students (sort of)

Ace Bandage

The one and only.
Okay, let me set the scene. When I was a sophomore in college (19 years-old) I had to go to a local high school to observe the teacher and students as part of my field experience for my education degree. I was put into an eleventh grade class (17 years-old). Now, keep in mind, the students were only two years younger than me and some of them were attractive. I, of course, tried to keep my professionalism. As I was only there to observe, I didn't interact with the students very much anyway. During my... observations, I noticed one female in particular who looked damn fine! I admit I checked her out a few times. Obviously, I didn't try to act on anything because getting thrown out of the program wasn't worth a relationship. So, I went about my business and moved on when my field experience was over.

Flash ahead seven years (whoosh). I ran into her randomly at a bar on Tuesday night ($.25 **** night on campus, w00t) but I didn't realize who she was until I started hitting on her. Once she told me her name, it clicked. She remembered me as well and guessed my name after I gave her a hint. It was a little awkward for a minute because she called me "Mr." and talked about when I was in her classroom, but we got over that. We talked for awhile (and hit it off pretty well) and made a date to have dinner on Saturday.

Now, I'm going to do everything I can to close the deal on Saturday. So I'm not asking your opinion on what I should do. I already know what the goal is. What I'm asking is whether or not this is right. I feel like it's okay because she's only two years younger, and I've dated girls with bigger age gaps before - five years ( I was 24, she was 19, but that's neither here nor there). But part of me feels it's a bit disconcerting that I was once in her high school classroom functioning as teacher, albeit in a limited capacity. So give me your opinions. Would your pursue her if you were in my place? Am I completely wrong? I don't plan on being influenced, I'm just curious.
 

PlasmaTwa2

The Second-Hottest Man in my ******'s Basement
I don't see a problem with that. That's not exactly the same as an ******** elementary student fucking a teacher. Since you are both adults who have decided to go out well after you were at her school, there isn't anything wrong with it unless you tell the good folks at Fox News.
 

biomech

Virtus Junxit Mors Non Separabit
Nothing wrong with it at all.
Have a good time.:nannerf1:
 
There is no problem. You're both adults. You didn't give her any clues or moves "back in the day."

You are consenting adults, with appropriate age gap and no conflict of interest arrangement. It's as if you both used to work at the same company, but now you work at different ones...:dunno:

You've got the green light. LAND THE PLANE CAPTAIN
(and post some piccies, let's see how good your taste is :thefinger)

If you can't close the deal, the Nature Rock will be waiting outside of the restaurant, with the limo running...waiting to sweep this lady off her feet ...
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
 

meesterperfect

Hiliary 2020
dude thats not you talking, thats USA and its society norms
i'm a teacher in another country, ive gone out with a few ex students after the course ended.
Im almost 40 and in the past 4 or 5 years ive been with many chics, some as young as 17.
the average one is about 22-24.
Its only in the states i believe where it says all couples must be in the 3 year age difference range.
its stupid so dont even consider it.
 

Ace Bandage

The one and only.
dude thats not you talking, thats USA and its society norms
i'm a teacher in another country, ive gone out with a few ex students after the course ended.
Im almost 40 and in the past 4 or 5 years ive been with many chics, some as young as 17.
the average one is about 22-24.
Its only in the states i believe where it says all couples must be in the 3 year age difference range.
its stupid so dont even consider it.

It may be a social norm, but if I had an intimate relationship with a 17 year-old, I would be fired on the spot and potentially prosecuted. So it's really not worth it over here in the States.
 

KimoraKlein

Verified Babe
Official Checked Star Member
I don't think there's anything wrong with that situation at all! Pursue away, dood. Just make sure you take her some place very far away from 25-cent beers :angels:
 

meesterperfect

Hiliary 2020
and i say fuck the eyebrows.

i see your point but its really nothing.
surely not strange.
the girl im with now is 12 years younger than me.....no problems at all.

I think its a social and more so a maturity thing in the states.
I remember when I was 25 and girls 18-20 treated me like an old man........
and hell i look alot younger than i am.

girls are more immature in the states than other places so its uncommon and considered strange, but to me thats strange.
 
Exactly. The tablecloths at the .25 cent places don't go all the way to the floor. Table cloths at upscale restaurants go to the floor, so she can massage your package with her foot, under the table, while you both eat your meals :thumbsup:

Another useful dating tip from The Nature Rock...
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
 
STDiva was in the same situation/ Well, kind of, in a general sense, I guess.
http://board.freeones.com/showthread.php?t=364753&highlight=Facebook+awesome

Either way, you have to realize, had this not been a school setting and a college setting things would be different. Do not allow what would have been ***** being a high school setting ruin for what is happening day in and day out.

I would suggest you play a good game of checkers with her, buy her a nice glass of milk, and take a walk in the park.

If you're lucky, you might get to kiss her on her cheek when you take her home! :nanner:
 

meesterperfect

Hiliary 2020
It may be a social norm, but if I had an intimate relationship with a 17 year-old, I would be fired on the spot and potentially prosecuted. So it's really not worth it over here in the States.

depends what state your in, in most 17 is legal.
i do agree it is too young for a relationship, but if you were fired for it youd have a nice lawsuit because its not *******.

funny country, you can ram your dick in another mans ass but .........nevermind.

have fun with the girl, show her a good time, hopefully she wont spend half her time playing with her cel phone.


funny vid
http://www.comedycentral.com/videos/index.jhtml?videoId=17358
 

Jane Burgess

Official Checked Star Member
It really is up to her. She may always see you as the guy who observed her class. Calling you Mr. was a good clue. To her she may just want to catch up with you, so I would not plan on sealing any deal. Girls do nto think like guys. As for the age difference, there is nothing wrong with it.
 
^
You're saying this could be a "friends only" dinner, Jane.....? Really?

It sounds to me like this lady might want to be yellin' WOOOOOOOOOO! ALL NIGHT LONG..does Andronicus have a Nature Rock sex demon inside him, waiting to come out and seal the deal...that is the question. :thumbsup:
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
 

Ace Bandage

The one and only.
I don't know. She was flirting pretty hardcore too. Who knows though? I've been trying to understand women all of my life and most of the time I'm wrong.
 

jasonk282

Banned
Meh not like your going to wind up on the new......are you?
 
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