cuckolds
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ban-one
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First of all, I doubt the guy on DogFart is anything more than a paid actor. And secondly, what do you care if some guys like being cuckolded? Does some woman have you by the testicles and you're too afraid to tell her how you really feel, so you come here and spout off?
rivasky
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I spoke to him. He knows where to place an apostrophe when appropriate.
Ari Dee
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Why so much animosity towards a completely harmless fetish?
Most of the people on this forum watch guys fuck girls in porn all the time, does that make you gay?
If not, how does a guy watching a girl, his gf, or his wife getting fucked in real life somehow make him gay?
Sure, some cuckolds also like being ordered around to service a guy, but at the most that makes them bisexual, not gay.. at the least it's just a humiliation and forced femme fetish that ties in with their cuckold fetish.
Don't condemn what you don't understand, especially not between consenting adults.
Most of the people on this forum watch guys fuck girls in porn all the time, does that make you gay?
If not, how does a guy watching a girl, his gf, or his wife getting fucked in real life somehow make him gay?
Sure, some cuckolds also like being ordered around to service a guy, but at the most that makes them bisexual, not gay.. at the least it's just a humiliation and forced femme fetish that ties in with their cuckold fetish.
Don't condemn what you don't understand, especially not between consenting adults.
Cuckold...is that the one where a guy and girl are fucking and there is another guy nearby trying to act all distressed? emphasis on the word "act"?
I'm guessing that the OP is just trolling. Cause i cant understand why anyone would not know that shit is fake. Or maybe OP is whining about something else i dont know. I dont care about what fetishes other people have, but it seems like most fetish videos are just so contrived and the dialogue and acting is so terrible i dont even know why they bother making them (or bother trying to make porn stars who cannot act...try to act). Like i think Zoey Holloway is really hot, but she talks too fucking much in all her "zoey fucking her stepson" videos. And there was another funny one i saw on pornhub a while back that the dialogue was just so cheesy i dont even know what to say. Poorly written fetish videos remind me of that scene in Joe Dirt where David Spade and Jaime Pressly are fucking and he is all "ohhh you're my siiisterrrrrr". Fetish videos feel the need to keep reminding you that you're watching a fetish video. Ohhh yah you're fucking me in the ass ohh yahhhhhhh. Or ohh yah you're my stepson and we're gonna fuck. Or like in the video below--but you're my broooootherrrrr this is grosss *puts the cock in her pussy and starts riding the shit out of it* so grosssssss.
http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1186525393
yea, can understand the watching, etc, but cum licking, dick sucking, and getting facial to the guy is something that goes a bit to extreme, and that's why I think those guys must be BI or Gay.
However as a straight dude, for me that's disgusting, and I see that as idiotism, but it's just my opinion.I understand what fetish is.
Ari Dee
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Uhm.. cuckolding isn't fake. Maybe in porn.. but a lot of things are faked in porn, because they're actors.
I do fetish clips, phone sex, sexting etc and cuckolds are real and not very uncommon.
I just think it's such a harmless fetish to judge harshly between consenting adults.
There are lots of fetishes that are way more "out there" than liking to see your girl get fucked or being into tease and denial. If your point is "they must be bi or gay!!" so?? Why bother trying to define that anyway? Let people have fun
I do fetish clips, phone sex, sexting etc and cuckolds are real and not very uncommon.
I just think it's such a harmless fetish to judge harshly between consenting adults.
There are lots of fetishes that are way more "out there" than liking to see your girl get fucked or being into tease and denial. If your point is "they must be bi or gay!!" so?? Why bother trying to define that anyway? Let people have fun
Uhm.. cuckolding isn't fake. Maybe in porn.. but a lot of things are faked in porn, because they're actors.
I do fetish clips, phone sex, sexting etc and cuckolds are real and not very uncommon.
I just think it's such a harmless fetish to judge harshly between consenting adults.
There are lots of fetishes that are way more "out there" than liking to see your girl get fucked or being into tease and denial. If your point is "they must be bi or gay!!" so?? Why bother trying to define that anyway? Let people have fun
it's their choice am not trying to stop or judge them or anything, it's just what i think.
I guess most people who are cuckolds are masohistic.
Ari Dee
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That sounds pretty judgmental to me lol
You are right about a lot of them being psychological masochists though.
I'm going to stick up for the op here, and say I partly agree with him.
I say "partly" because I think his argument is towards the wrong people. I think the...
I say "partly" because I think his argument is towards the wrong people. I think the...
...should be towards the people who watch and actually enjoy watching it. Especially when you consider cuckolding is shown supposedly on predominantly "straight" sites, though arguably on DogFart (as op mentioned) there is a gay section so maybe the predominant audience of DogFart are fags.
Op mentioned "DogFart", so I don't think it's completely harmless as it would most likely have racial overtones.
Firstly, 95% of men watch porn because of the women and secondly, you can't compare watching something on a tv screen to participating in the sex itself and sucking the mans dick/licking his sperm.
I can't speak for the op, but I can agree with him in the sense that the word "gay" is being used to describe these men as behaving "effeminate" or "unmanly".
SabrinaDeep
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Those of you who criticize cuckolds and find them disgusting, are you the same people who call homophobic whoever criticize gays, gay marriage etc? You know that gays eat cum and lick asses too, right?
well that is what cuckolds do and they are gay, no big deal, sometime i'm even cool with them being compared to all white guys, because it's part of the porn to turn on your hatred, make you wish you had that girl and fucked her so good that you wouldn't become like the cuckold, the essence is fucking the girl so hard that she wont think for another guy, because if you do you will end up like that, and that's a nightmare for straight guys.
nobody is saying bad for anyone.
Ari Dee
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I think some of you may just be failing to realize how complex and diverse each fetish actually is.
Not all cuckolds do the same things.
Do some people only watch cuckold porn? Yes. Do some people only like to role-play online or via phone sex? Yes. Do some cuckolds live their fetish as a lifestyle? Yes. Do some of those people also enjoy "forced bi" situations or servicing other men at the request of the woman cuckolding them? Yes.
But not all those people do all those things, so you can't really just say "cuckolds are gay" or "cuckolds are this.." without being one or having any sex work experience with them in any way.
Now if you were referring specifically to people who racialize that fetish, that's another matter and I can see why people would debate how "appropriate" that is.
But that brings us into a larger argument of how fetishes or porn effect real life or reinforce certain stigmas.
I just don't want to see everyone get lumped in under the same umbrella for their fetish.
(We actually discussed cuckolds quite a bit when I was on the Dr. Suzy Block show in June, especially lifestyle vs pro/ reality vs fantasy.)
Not all cuckolds do the same things.
Do some people only watch cuckold porn? Yes. Do some people only like to role-play online or via phone sex? Yes. Do some cuckolds live their fetish as a lifestyle? Yes. Do some of those people also enjoy "forced bi" situations or servicing other men at the request of the woman cuckolding them? Yes.
But not all those people do all those things, so you can't really just say "cuckolds are gay" or "cuckolds are this.." without being one or having any sex work experience with them in any way.
Now if you were referring specifically to people who racialize that fetish, that's another matter and I can see why people would debate how "appropriate" that is.
But that brings us into a larger argument of how fetishes or porn effect real life or reinforce certain stigmas.
I just don't want to see everyone get lumped in under the same umbrella for their fetish.
(We actually discussed cuckolds quite a bit when I was on the Dr. Suzy Block show in June, especially lifestyle vs pro/ reality vs fantasy.)
DrakeM
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Each to his or her own. I refuse to judge people who engage in cuckolding or any sexual practice they do willingly. If it works for them, fine. If it brings happiness into their lives, great. It is no business of yours, unless it involves children or animals. If someone out there has a pope-fetish, go for it, and extra points for creativity.
how about the cases where cuckolds act like becoming humiliated because they are white? so going in the racial way, it offends me, because I am not like it.
The definition of "cuckold" to is a bit fuzzy still.
A few years ago, I expressed to my girlfriend (now my fiance) that I had thought about wanting to see her fuck another man. At first she wasn't into it, but accepted and respected that it was my fantasy. Later on, when the right opportunity presented itself, she asked me if it was still something I wanted to see. It was. She had a male co-worker that she was attracted to that was moving across the country. She arranged it so that, the weekend before we left, they hooked up and I came along to watch. It was exciting and fun and it became another part of our sex life after that. She had a great time being intimate with men she found attractive and I saw it as a really fun, hot show. No jealousy or weird feelings every developed because of it. On top of that, being a witness to seeing her lose all of her inhibitions allowed me to notice things I've never pick up on while we were having sex. You notice little things that you might miss while focusing on trying to pleasure somebody directly.
It was never about humiliation or eating cum or anything like that. I just liked to sit back and watch her have a great time. Sex is beautiful and amazing and as great as our sex life was and is, there's something awesome about getting to see her enjoy herself without being directly involved every now and then. I don't consider that "cuckholding," I just consider it voyeurism, but I guess everybody has their own definitions.
I've realized that it is about humiliation for some. And, with others, I think there is a gay or bisexual element to it. But even though I don't "get" that or have any desire to be involved with that kind of thing, I don't see anything wrong with it. If it's safe and between consenting adults and nobody is being manipulated into doing it, so what?
A few years ago, I expressed to my girlfriend (now my fiance) that I had thought about wanting to see her fuck another man. At first she wasn't into it, but accepted and respected that it was my fantasy. Later on, when the right opportunity presented itself, she asked me if it was still something I wanted to see. It was. She had a male co-worker that she was attracted to that was moving across the country. She arranged it so that, the weekend before we left, they hooked up and I came along to watch. It was exciting and fun and it became another part of our sex life after that. She had a great time being intimate with men she found attractive and I saw it as a really fun, hot show. No jealousy or weird feelings every developed because of it. On top of that, being a witness to seeing her lose all of her inhibitions allowed me to notice things I've never pick up on while we were having sex. You notice little things that you might miss while focusing on trying to pleasure somebody directly.
It was never about humiliation or eating cum or anything like that. I just liked to sit back and watch her have a great time. Sex is beautiful and amazing and as great as our sex life was and is, there's something awesome about getting to see her enjoy herself without being directly involved every now and then. I don't consider that "cuckholding," I just consider it voyeurism, but I guess everybody has their own definitions.
I've realized that it is about humiliation for some. And, with others, I think there is a gay or bisexual element to it. But even though I don't "get" that or have any desire to be involved with that kind of thing, I don't see anything wrong with it. If it's safe and between consenting adults and nobody is being manipulated into doing it, so what?
not for that but from him trying to say all white guys are like that. i am sure you are familiar with that kind of porn.