I was, until recently dating this woman who ticked all the boxes. She was very attractive, funny, intelligent and had a great little body on her. We laughed, went out and we clicked on so many levels; it was perfect. We both expressed our feelings for each other were going very strongly and that she can and want to see us having a long term future together. We then had a week apart whilst she performed in a local play, and that's when things went south.
The following week she dumped me saying that she now couldn't see us having a future together because she had a "gut feeling". In our subsequent conversations she has expressed that she wants to see us have a future, but she now feels it isn't meant to be.
What I'm asking for here is your opinions as to what you think she means. One minute she is saying things like she wants us to have a future and in the same sentence she's saying not.
If we have any ladies on the forum, can you explain what it is that I'm being told because I haven't got a clue what to do next?
Some female friends of mine have suggested breaking off contact for a week or so and then see if she contacts me, others have said to stay in contact so that she can see what it is she's missing out on.
My male friends have all said move on, but that to me seems like accepting defeat (but I don't want to seem like a stalker or sex pest).
Ladies (if there are any here) what do you think I should do?
The following week she dumped me saying that she now couldn't see us having a future together because she had a "gut feeling". In our subsequent conversations she has expressed that she wants to see us have a future, but she now feels it isn't meant to be.
What I'm asking for here is your opinions as to what you think she means. One minute she is saying things like she wants us to have a future and in the same sentence she's saying not.
If we have any ladies on the forum, can you explain what it is that I'm being told because I haven't got a clue what to do next?
Some female friends of mine have suggested breaking off contact for a week or so and then see if she contacts me, others have said to stay in contact so that she can see what it is she's missing out on.
My male friends have all said move on, but that to me seems like accepting defeat (but I don't want to seem like a stalker or sex pest).
Ladies (if there are any here) what do you think I should do?
