Well-said, my friend.
Far too many people stay silent about their depression.
Please get help. There is absolutely NO shame in reaching out.
RIP, Ms Ames.
August Ames, 23, Passes Away
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Well-said, my friend.
Far too many people stay silent about their depression.
Please get help. There is absolutely NO shame in reaching out.
RIP, Ms Ames.
More:
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/w...-suicide-body-adult-films-actor-a8096496.html
Lest we forget, she was a real person with a real name: Mercedes Grabowski:
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/w...x-scene-online-bullying-suicide-a8097556.html
Just heartbreaking. I just can't watch any of her scenes, it'll make me too sad.
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/w...-suicide-body-adult-films-actor-a8096496.html
Lest we forget, she was a real person with a real name: Mercedes Grabowski:
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/w...x-scene-online-bullying-suicide-a8097556.html
Just heartbreaking. I just can't watch any of her scenes, it'll make me too sad.
Eric Lindros
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So by your logic, we shouldn't listen to Linkin Park either because Chester died?
I actually think that jerking off to her is a good way to pay tribute to her. Porn was her job, her porn videos are what's left of her in thiw world now (at least for us common folk, her relatives sure have more but when it comes to us, that's alll we got).
When a singer dies, listening to his songs is a good way to pay tributeto her. If it's awriter you can read his books, if it's an actors you can watch his movies. So why would it be wrong when a pornstar dies to watch her porn videos ? (unless off course we know she hated her job but that's not the case here).
What did she say/do?
I followed her on Instagram off and on and I did notice she was looking different then when I first discovered her work. So she was getting plastic surgery on her face?
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Of course they are, tough guy turned coward....what a total scumbag.
Twitter MUST boot this guy immediately.
According to a recent interview, she was raped by her paternal grandfather and her own father refused to believe her. She was put in a group home at 12, sexually assaulted as a teenager by another adult. She was bipolar and suffered from depression. http://www.nydailynews.com/entertai...-depression-struggles-death-article-1.3683371
It's very easy to blame people who were overly critical of her comments and maybe that did influence her actions. But the reality according to her was that she dealt with some fucked up shit in her youth and there were/are many complexities that we still don't know and might never know. The only thing that we do know for absolute certain is that this was a tragic and horrific event that ended the life of a young, physically healthy woman who should still be breathing today. A woman with the potential for a happy, healthy future who no longer has that. It's natural to point fingers and cast blame, but I really think that everybody needs to step back and refrain from doing so until way more is made clear.
As far as the question about if it is or isn't appropriate to jerk off to her, for me, I deleted whatever scenes I had and will absolutely not use other copies of those scenes, memories of those scenes or other scenes of hers as a mastubatory aid. I might be a weirdo, but death and especially death by suicide tends to overshadow beauty in life or somebody's talent for creating quality pornography. I don't judge what anybody else decides to do in regard to that, but I do find it sad that many have already brought up the question before her body was even released from the morgue. She was a porn star, sex worker, adult entertainer...whatever you prefer to call her. But in death, I kind of wish we could all disassociate that for a moment and think of her as Mercedes Grabowski; a young woman that we didn't know, but somebody who was a human being with thoughts, hopes, memories, ambitions, regrets and everything else that we all are.
It's very easy to blame people who were overly critical of her comments and maybe that did influence her actions. But the reality according to her was that she dealt with some fucked up shit in her youth and there were/are many complexities that we still don't know and might never know. The only thing that we do know for absolute certain is that this was a tragic and horrific event that ended the life of a young, physically healthy woman who should still be breathing today. A woman with the potential for a happy, healthy future who no longer has that. It's natural to point fingers and cast blame, but I really think that everybody needs to step back and refrain from doing so until way more is made clear.
As far as the question about if it is or isn't appropriate to jerk off to her, for me, I deleted whatever scenes I had and will absolutely not use other copies of those scenes, memories of those scenes or other scenes of hers as a mastubatory aid. I might be a weirdo, but death and especially death by suicide tends to overshadow beauty in life or somebody's talent for creating quality pornography. I don't judge what anybody else decides to do in regard to that, but I do find it sad that many have already brought up the question before her body was even released from the morgue. She was a porn star, sex worker, adult entertainer...whatever you prefer to call her. But in death, I kind of wish we could all disassociate that for a moment and think of her as Mercedes Grabowski; a young woman that we didn't know, but somebody who was a human being with thoughts, hopes, memories, ambitions, regrets and everything else that we all are.
I know society thinks thats not the same, but it should be
And since we disagree with society about porn being something wrong, I don't understand why some of us thinks it's listening to Linkin Park after Chester Bennington's death is different from watch August Ames' porn videos after her death
We don't give a shit about society tellig us that porn is wrong, why should be about jerking-off on a dead pornstar being wrong ?
I somewhat agree with your first line about casting blame too quickly. But at the same time, it still should be pointed out that cyber-bullying is a major problem on social media. No one should ever, ever tweet at someone to "swallow a cyanide pill."
As for your other point, I won't judge people who still wish to view her scenes/photos and masturbate to them (and I'm certainly not implying you're judging anyone). To each his own. But I'm with you on this point: I personally cannot watch them now and have also deleted everything I have of her on my computer (including bookmarked scenes and websites).
just reported the youtube channel and other videos for child exploitation and violence.
this whole story makes me so fucking angry... this shit is not worth anyone's life, let alone someone who brought so much joy to millions with her beauty
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