69'ing Dilema

[LukeEl]

This has happen to me on numerous occassions. I have been known to partake in a sexual activity called 69'ing, or as I like to call it the Mutually Not So Satisfying Dual Oral Disappointment For Me.
Anyway the point I am trying to make is I'll be eating a girl out she'll be blowing me. It's great we're orally pleasing each other at the same time. However approximately 3 or 5 minutes into this the girl I am with will stop and say she can't concentrate, or is too distracted and stops.:dunno: And this has happend multiple times and that is the general reason why 69'ing ends. And no I am not on top of them either.So then it is back to one at time oral sex on each, which is great but I think it is better in a 69. So folks, men folk have you ever encountered this while engaging in this? And women out here, do any of you get and sexual gratification out of 69'ing? Thanks for the time and we the royal we will leave the light on for you.

 

[shaolinslugger]

maybe try one thing at a time.

 

[Hot Mega]

I suppose that's her way of saying you're not doing too good a job and she wants to skip to the fucking.:dunno:

I've gotten some of my ALLTIME best bjs while 69'in because the more turned on the chicks have gotten by me eating them, the more crazy they go on my dick.

When you're really, really turning a chick on...she can barely keep her mouth off of you and what ever body part of yours is close by...That's been my experience.

I would say honestly she's trying to say that you aren't doing it good. Or she doesn't like your technique in that position. Think about it, WWYD if you're getting a bad bj?

For me, that shit is very distracting and a turnoff...I suppose that's how she's feeling.

I would say watch some good lesbo shit and collect better techniques. The problem now though is she's probably psychologically jaded to your skills and has a negative feeling about it.

JMO.

 

[STDiva]

I suppose that's her way of saying you're not doing too good a job and she wants to skip to the fucking.:dunno:

Damn Mega, you pull no punches.

 

[Hot Mega]

Damn Mega, you pull no punches.

Well STD, I try and give everything like I want everything...straight.

 

[Bloodshot Scott]

Not so much that my ex and I ever stopped. I Know how to go to town on a girl, but my ex unfortunately wasn't that good at giving head.

 

[alex505]

I suppose that's her way of saying you're not doing too good a job and she wants to skip to the fucking.:dunno:

I've gotten some of my ALLTIME best bjs while 69'in because the more turned on the chicks have gotten by me eating them, the more crazy they go on my dick.

When you're really, really turning a chick on...she can barely keep her mouth off of you and what ever body part of yours is close by...That's been my experience.

I would say honestly she's trying to say that you aren't doing it good. Or she doesn't like your technique in that position. Think about it, WWYD if you're getting a bad bj?

For me, that shit is very distracting and a turnoff...I suppose that's how she's feeling.

I would say watch some good lesbo shit and collect better techniques. The problem now though is she's probably psychologically jaded to your skills and has a negative feeling about it.

JMO.

Good Fucking Advice! couldn't have said it better myself!

 

[DOA82]

It wouldnt surprise me if she is feeling particularly vulnerable in the position. A woman feels uncomfortable enough just being naked, but in a 69 its bound to be worse for them. You have your head between hear thighs, staring at her ass while getting freaky with her genitalia. It would be great if every woman had the confidence of a porn star or at least didnt give a shit about her body, but you are in a triple threat zone.

Unless the lights are out you are getting a full on view of the areas she probably feels worse about. Not to mention she is expected to be performing on you as well, women and oral sex is another area I find is seldomly truelly reflected in porn. It took 14 months to convince my other half to perform on me and shes still reluctant.

If your gonna 69, best advice is put her in a position where she doesnt have to return the favour until after she herself has climaxed. Let her enjoy the sensations from you and dont distract her. Bringing a woman to orgasm is like defunsing a land mine, one wrong move and its over!

You can still get yours, but make sure shes had hers first!

 

[Member442]

The only time I've ever momentarily stopped a 69 was when I got off so hard I for a few minutes could barely move. Though the moment feeling was all back we just continued. That being said the only other time I would stop is if it was no good for me in the 69. Mega's right the better you play the more intense we play. At least in my experience and that of a few of my friends.

 

[feller469]

I have had a woman say that she couldn't concentrate on giving me head because what she was feeling was too intense. Maybe she was bullshitting me, but based on our relationship, I would say she wasn't. Not all women are the same and maybe the intensity is too much for her to give back what she is receiving. Maybe going to town isn't what she wants. Some women like to have that build-up to orgasm, and not rush to orgasm

just sayin'

 

[lurkingdirk]

Shave your balls and asscrack, and the experience will go better.

Just sayin.

 

[Shifty]

Hmm ... sounds like LukeEl is a 69'ng machine! :yesyes:

Maybe just tone it down a little ... :dunno:

 

[LukeEl]

Thanks everyone, I have taken all this great advice and give it the ol' Commuinity College try.

 

[Hot Mega]

I have had a woman say that she couldn't concentrate on giving me head because what she was feeling was too intense. Maybe she was bullshitting me, but based on our relationship, I would say she wasn't. Not all women are the same and maybe the intensity is too much for her to give back what she is receiving. Maybe going to town isn't what she wants. Some women like to have that build-up to orgasm, and not rush to orgasm

just sayin'

Hmm...unless she was cumming or came...sounds like she wasn't being completely "forthright" with you.:o

If you're doing it well..the last thing most women (and every one that I've experienced) want you to do is stop and they are usually too busy trying to gnaw your cock off of your pelvis anyway if it's good to them. I mean, that would be the whole point of 69'in in the first place..the more you turn each other on the more you spontaneously go at it.

I have never experienced a chick wanting off the 69 ride before she came. But it would seem to me that if a chick wanted off before she got off..and said she couldn't "concentrate"...that sounds pretty clear.

Think about it, the only time most people (sans porn types) have to concentrate during sex is when something's not turning them on.

Sex is a reflex sport, not a concentration sport.:2 cents:

 

[vodkazvictim]

I always had a problem with 69ing, just as the OP described; I get so destracted I don't lick it so well and they get so distracted they don't suck so good. 69ing at least has the advantage you can slot ya cock right down her throat a whole lot easier. If you really wanna give her a throat fucking, you go on top for the 69.

 

[feller469]

Hmm...unless she was cumming or came...sounds like she wasn't being completely "forthright" with you.:o

If you're doing it well..the last thing most women (and every one that I've experienced) want you to do is stop and they are usually too busy trying to gnaw your cock off of your pelvis anyway if it's good to them. I mean, that would be the whole point of 69'in in the first place..the more you turn each other on the more you spontaneously go at it.

I have never experienced a chick wanting off the 69 ride before she came. But it would seem to me that if a chick wanted off before she got off..and said she couldn't "concentrate"...that sounds pretty clear.

Think about it, the only time most people (sans porn types) have to concentrate during sex is when something's not turning them on.

Sex is a reflex sport, not a concentration sport.:2 cents:

Well, shit, Mega, now that you have spoken, I guess it is settled. Obviously you have been with every kind of woman there is, not only that, you have been with every kind of woman and been with her through her mood swings.

I will send a private message to you before I chime in with my experiences to see if mine are valid.

I think Steve Martin said it best when he said, "Welllllllllll, eeeexxxxxxxxcccccccccccccuuuuuuussssssseeeeeeee mmmmmmmmeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!"

 

[alexpnz]

You should have been there when I let one rip during a 69 session....now THAT was a dilemma!

 

[Hot Mega]

Well, shit, Mega, now that you have spoken, I guess it is settled. Obviously you have been with every kind of woman there is, not only that, you have been with every kind of woman and been with her through her mood swings.

I will send a private message to you before I chime in with my experiences to see if mine are valid.

I think Steve Martin said it best when he said, "Welllllllllll, eeeexxxxxxxxcccccccccccccuuuuuuussssssseeeeeeee mmmmmmmmeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!"

Well I said "most" (could be right could be wrong) and every chick I've ever done it with.

Besides that, I didn't question whether your experience was "valid" or not. I questioned whether she was being forthright or not based on the experience you explained.:2 cents:

Save the pm's about your experiences fella'.

But you're right, there are allot of different people out there.

 

[Shifty]

The only time I've ever momentarily stopped a 69 was when I got off so hard I for a few minutes could barely move.

You're welcome.

 

[bazza599]

ask her why she stops after 5 but u might not like the answer but it will be truthfull