Aside from the ******  part, I guess that you make a fair point, however, demerits shouldn't be awarded to those who post 
tongue -n- cheeky entries or to those who simply have a different opinion than ourselves, they should be awarded to those who assail our individual character in an unsolicited fashion.
 Evidenced by?  . . .
Actually, I haven't crossed the threshold of 'my' church doors since  . . . since, well, I think it was a funeral maybe(?) . . . beats the bejesus out of me.:dunno:
Anyway, hope that you have an extraordinary New Year  . . . see ya out on the board.