Why do I get flak for not being attracted to White girls?

You are really gonna have to get your head out of those dating site surveys, if you go by them then Asian males are more desirable to White girls than Black males. And believe me, White women may marry a White man but you best believe they do that they want to try as many flavors as they can.

Heck, I used to be sad that I was attracted to Latinas and Asian girls, why? They either exclusively went for their own race or they were whitewashed to the extent they only went for Whites.

Hispanic, Pacific Islander and Native American? Funny story, when people look at me they assume I am either one of those groups.

I'm going by whatever data I can find, and if it's somewhat consistent, who am I turn my nose up at it when there's not much else out there.


And you using that whitewashed term also points to your animosity towards white people. It's the little things here and there that point to a little bit of malice on your part. No wonder those random latino guys have a problem with you. They sense you lack respect for others and I can tell that right from your posts. You seem like one of those white guys who talks about "jungle bunnies" or "submissive asian girls" or black guys who talk about "beckys" and "snow bunnies."

Change your attitude or perhaps go find an Indian girl. Don't be like those weird Asian guys who frequent Asian male dominated forums who cry about white women not liking them one minute and then come out with a racist diatribe about "white sluts" the next minute. You are insecure and feel you need to get a non-Indian girl to overcome this small penis Indian meme.


Oh and I find the article you were talking about, if you had taken the time to read before raging out, you would notice that it was a survey conducted by Indians for Indians on the part of a condom manufacturer----Wouldn't knowing how well their condoms fit be kind of important for them?:)

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It's only a study of 1000 men in one area of a 1.3 billion person country with a greater genetic diversity than Europe, South America or the rest of Asia.
 
I'm not going by any statistics, etc. What I'm suggesting is at most mainstream sites that specialize in interracial dating or have selections where race can be selected...of the white women inclined to choose other than white...the majority's choice seems to be black.:2 cents:

I just want to back this part up because I think we may be talking past one another.


I was talking about the vast majority of white women--most of whom choose white men as their preference. Of those who choose white men and another choice, those are the ones most frequently chosen as an equal or secondary choice.

I agree that those who specifically avoid white men in favor of another race mostly choose black, but that's a very small percentage of white women as shown by study after study. Also this small group is problematic for various reasons that I won't discuss because it'll stir up b.s. even farther away from the topic.
 
I just want to back this part up because I think we may be talking past one another.


I was talking about the vast majority of white women--most of whom choose white men as their preference. Of those who choose white men and another choice, those are the ones most frequently chosen as an equal or secondary choice.

I agree that those who specifically avoid white men in favor of another race mostly choose black, but that's a very small percentage of white women as shown by study after study. Also this small group is problematic for various reasons that I won't discuss because it'll stir up b.s. even farther away from the topic.

Meh..I don't know. I don't go around fishing for studies, polls or whatever on this stuff. I think that stuff is fairly meaningless unless you are the kind of person who just has to find something to support a point of view in which case..most people can cherry pick the study or poll they want to go by. I just go by my own, chance observations. Besides, if history has shown anything it's shown the propensity for man (and woman) to say one thing while they think and do another.

But whereas you see something as 'problematic', I see it as mere, personal choice. Be the group of whomever..small, medium or relatively large...not sure how it could be a problem for anyone beyond those who try to make other people's business and motivations their business.:dunno:

But I recall you bemoaning some self destructive psychosis invading the minds of whites and I suspect you believe this is just another manifestation of it.

Nonsense. People all over the world have their preferences and they act on them. It's not the end of the world, it's not the end of the human race nor is it even the end of the white 'race'. Everywhere I've ever seen a problem with it hasn't been as a result of sound minded people effecting their own preferences..it's been those whom for whatever reasons think it their business.:2 cents:

Just like in another post you accused British of being self haters who love black skin. Not sure how you arrive at such a broad conclusion on British whites but the mere fact that you attribute whatever their preference to them being self hating is at best naive, at worst flat ignorance of human psychology.
 
Seriously? This thread has gone 5 pages?? It's a dead end topic that keeps going in circles.

Dude, Revamp, you know perfectly well that you're not expecting some real, scientific answer. You just wanted attention, and to complain that people were mean to you, so you asked a dead-end question.
"Why do I get flak for not being attracted to white girls?"

What kind of answer would you expect from that? It's really quite simple:
Because some people are ignorant dicks, and you care more about what they think than you should (and before you say "I don't care what others think" - Yes you obviously do, since you have a thread about it. Otherwise you would say 'fuck it' and 'fuck them' and move on because their opinions don't matter. But instead, everything has to be race-race-race).
If you try to dig any deeper into it then you're not going to find anything.

"Look I just find it wrong that a White girl can say "I don't do sand ******s" or "sorry, I don't like Mexicans or Asians" and when I say "I am not into White girls" I get called close minded and racist!?"

Wow. What a load of crap. You're saying that white people get away with saying the things that you say, or are accused of saying? Bullshit. White people are the last ones to get away with these things. Black people get away with it way more than anyone.

^^^^THIS! I don't think anyone could have hit the nail more squarely on the head. This guy simply made a thread with the intent on baiting people to respond to it. Guess what, It worked.
 
I have my doubts.

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Sure you do, if you base your information and observations on MTV, they'd have you believe that black thugs are the quintisential (desirable) male. We know better though. Even if that is the most common interracial group (bm/wf), it's the brothers that are seeking the white women far more than it is the other way around, and even if you claim it's not true, you know you're only foolin yourself.

Speaking just on my experience, my ex was always getting hit on by the brothers, as have my sisters as well.
 
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Sure you do, if you base your information and observations on MTV, they'd have you believe that black thugs are the quintisential (desirable) male. We know better though. Even if that is the most common interracial group (bm/wf), it's the brothers that are seeking the white women far more than it is the other way around, and even if you claim it's not true, you know you're only foolin yourself.

Speaking just on my experience, my ex was always getting hit on by the brothers, as have my sisters as well.

Out of curiosity, do they have big asses or something? I suppose I am stereotyping a bit. Also, congrats on getting over 1 million rep. Not sure when it happened, but congrats anyway.
 
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Sure you do, if you base your information and observations on MTV, they'd have you believe that black thugs are the quintisential (desirable) male. We know better though. Even if that is the most common interracial group (bm/wf), it's the brothers that are seeking the white women far more than it is the other way around, and even if you claim it's not true, you know you're only foolin yourself.

Speaking just on my experience, my ex was always getting hit on by the brothers, as have my sisters as well.

From what I've seen and what most people are easily going to believe is the case is the two most common appearances women universally seem attracted to is the image of a man with wealth and the image of a 'bad boy'. The fact of the matter is this BS Scott, history is replete with examples of some women (not sure what pct.) gravitating to a so called 'bad boy' image. Whether it's lately the Colin Farrell's, tatted up rocker guy or tatted up rapper guy.. some women just find it their thing and it's not new.

Now what may be new is there are more varieties of the so called 'bad boy' image being perpetuated in the media which may be generating some new attention but the concept itself isn't new.:2 cents:

Not that this is scientific at all but some time ago I happened to be looking at some youtube video of a porn babe about some issue she was having with her titjob...because it was pretty funny her way of dealing with it. She had multiple vids on youtube so I just watched a couple of more since that one seemed refreshingly candid...So into the 2nd vid..which was apparently on the set of a shoot she was about to do... there was a guy running around with a cam on the set sort of like a behind the scenes...and he comes up to her and she's talking blah blah blah...then lo out comes the I'm shooting with so and so today then in conjunction with that out comes the black guys with tats are so fucking hot (or whatever there abouts). So, is it life imitating art or art imitating life?:dunno:

Re: your ex and sisters...if they are what most men would consider attractive...of course men are going to hit on them. Women of any persuasion get hit on...that's nothing new either. Unless you're thinking they were only attractive to black guys. In that case, see Bearded M's question.:o
 
From what I've seen and what most people are easily going to believe is the case is the two most common appearances women universally seem attracted to is the image of a man with wealth and the image of a 'bad boy'. .
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Thug rappers aren't "bad boys," but fucking a scourge on society. :2 cents: And I have to say with all honesty that from everything the females in my life have relayed to me and how they've acted is anything but attracted to black thugs or even black dudes for that matter. They just aren't attracted to them. You wanna know who my ******(s) are attracted to? Try Brad Pitt and Mikkel Kessler.
 
I'm not going by any statistics, etc. What I'm suggesting is at most mainstream sites that specialize in interracial dating or have selections where race can be selected...of the white women inclined to choose other than white...the majority's choice seems to be black.:2 cents:

I just noticed this. You have a problem with MY stating about sites with a much larger pool being inconsistent, while those focusing specifically on race are somehow more telling on the majority of white women?

The white folks looking specifically for someone OTHER than their own race are a problematic outlier and don't even make up a majority of white people willing to date out of their own race. Most people who are willing to date IR are open to their own race and x,y,z or no race in particular. It's a subset of people who ONLY want to date someone not of their own race.
 
Thug rappers aren't "bad boys," but fucking a scourge on society. :2 cents: And I have to say with all honesty that from everything the females in my life have relayed to me and how they've acted is anything but attracted to black thugs or even black dudes for that matter. They just aren't attracted to them. You wanna know who my ******(s) are attracted to? Try Brad Pitt and Mikkel Kessler.

This is more likely the truth.

Are "thug" rappers even around anymore? I think folks figured out that this whole genre was more like WWE than anything else well over a decade ago.


On top of that, a big chunk of these so-called thug black men are gay or suburban black businessmen with musical talent just trying to make it big<--ex. tpain, sean combes, soulja boy, perhaps even Ice Cube could fit in there.

One of the biggest jokes was this guy Rick Ross claiming to be a "boss" and some kind of drugrunner (like who is going to admit this b.s.) and it turned out that he was a CORRECTIONS officer. The rap and ********* websites were dogging this guy out for years.


Rap is no different than pop music or any of that Disney incorporated junk from years ago. The entertainment industry grooms these rappers the same way they ***** the next teen pop icon like britney spears. Why is that? Because rap music is just pop music.
 
Thug rappers aren't "bad boys," but fucking a scourge on society. :2 cents: And I have to say with all honesty that from everything the females in my life have relayed to me and how they've acted is anything but attracted to black thugs or even black dudes for that matter. They just aren't attracted to them. You wanna know who my ******(s) are attracted to? Try Brad Pitt and Mikkel Kessler.

Well, whether some guy who represents a 'bad boy' image is one or not is irrelevant. Are 50 cent, *** Rock, Tommy Lee, etc. actually 'bad boys'? Who the fuck knows but the only thing that practically matters is how they represent themselves and that image is what the people who follow them buy into. That's a simple fact otherwise they wouldn't have 'fans'.

I'm still not sure you believe though BS Scott that the world is bigger than what you see outside your door or inside your door talking to your friends and ****** but believe me it is. But women are into that, it's nothing new and they see reflections of it in many different cases nowadays.

Much of what's stylized on tv is nonsense but you best believe a good majority of it is a reflection of what is actually happening in the world. Or at least in many of the places depicted that are not Minnesota (or Wisconsin or where ever you are).:2 cents:

I just noticed this. You have a problem with MY stating about sites with a much larger pool being inconsistent, while those focusing specifically on race are somehow more telling on the majority of white women?

The white folks looking specifically for someone OTHER than their own race are a problematic outlier and don't even make up a majority of white people willing to date out of their own race. Most people who are willing to date IR are open to their own race and x,y,z or no race in particular. It's a subset of people who ONLY want to date someone not of their own race.
:dunno: Uh, okay.:confused: Again, you follow this stuff far more intensely than I would. My perspective is based primarily on mere, chance observations and some degree of what I think is realism.

This is more likely the truth.

Are "thug" rappers even around anymore? I think folks figured out that this whole genre was more like WWE than anything else well over a decade ago.


On top of that, a big chunk of these so-called thug black men are gay or suburban black businessmen with musical talent just trying to make it big.

One of the biggest jokes was this guy Rick Ross claiming to be a "boss" and some kind of drugrunner (like who is going to admit this b.s.) and it turned out that he was a CORRECTIONS officer. The rap and ********* websites were dogging this guy out for years.


Rap is no different than pop music or any of that Disney incorporated junk from years ago. The entertainment industry grooms these rappers the same way they ***** the next teen pop icon like britney spears. Why is that? Because rap music is just pop music.

Misses the point.
 
Well, whether some guy who represents a 'bad boy' image is one or not is irrelevant. Are 50 cent, *** Rock, Tommy Lee, etc. actually 'bad boys'? Who the fuck knows but the only thing that practically matters is how they represent themselves and that image is what the people who follow them buy into. That's a simple fact otherwise they wouldn't have 'fans'.t.

I agree with you pretty much all the way here. I think the point I am trying to convey is, from the MSM (and whatever offshoot of the MSM - movies, videos, shows) that the impression many people get (including roronoa or whatever the fuck his name is) is that white women have this crazy love affair with the brothers. Not only that, but it feeds into some really atrocious behavior. My girl was groped and almost sexually assaulted; my ****** was chased home before; I've seen girls get called raacists because they said they didn't want to date a black *** in JH, to the point where she was ******, etc. Also that whiteboys are some effeminate punk bitches, but this is just so not true. These are big ass myths, and I don't like myths like that. I've seen black Vice Lords get fucking beaten nearly to death by big inner city white ****. I've seen big Irish **** take on two, even three at once and still hold their ground. I don't deny that some girls are "black guys only," but my point is that it's not widespread, just like BDG is conveying as well.
 
I agree with you pretty much all the way here. I think the point I am trying to convey is, from the MSM (and whatever offshoot of the MSM - movies, videos, shows) that the impression many people get (including roronoa or whatever the fuck his name is) is that white women have this crazy love affair with the brothers. Not only that, but it feeds into some really atrocious behavior. My girl was groped and almost sexually assaulted; my ****** was chased home before; I've seen girls get called raacists because they said they didn't want to date a black *** in JH, to the point where she was ******, etc. Also that whiteboys are some effeminate punk bitches, but this is just so not true. These are big ass myths, and I don't like myths like that. I've seen black Vice Lords get fucking beaten nearly to death by big inner city white ****. I've seen big Irish **** take on two, even three at once and still hold their ground. I don't deny that some girls are "black guys only," but my point is that it's not widespread, just like BDG is conveying as well.

Obviously there is a backlash perspective by some to what seems to be a saturation of certain types of imagery. But look at the entirety of media and then ask yourself, does it just seem that way or am I really just reacting to what amounts to some change in status quo?

I thought about that for myself once and after looking at all the examples of all kinds of cases objectively as I could...it turns out the actual case is simply a change in status quo but not some unfair, over representation. At least that's what conclusion I cam away with.
 
Thug rappers aren't "bad boys," but fucking a scourge on society. :2 cents: And I have to say with all honesty that from everything the females in my life have relayed to me and how they've acted is anything but attracted to black thugs or even black dudes for that matter. They just aren't attracted to them. You wanna know who my ******(s) are attracted to? Try Brad Pitt and Mikkel Kessler.

Mikkel looks like the tough guy type that many women, of all races, seek, only his race is different, so Mega is correct.

And based on evolutionary biology the ideal situation for many women is to have the tough guy to give her a ***** and then get a wealthy guy to take care of her and her ***.
 
A. This is a weird thread. How did this turn into black men and white women thread?

B. Why are people so offended that some white women may prefer black men? Who the fuck gives a ****!? :dunno:
 
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